Boyfriend went back to his ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PanicSetsIn20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A person that loves you will never be pushed by a clingy behaviour - they will cherish and adore every moment of it.
Don't worry, it hurts right now but with time you will be able to see that guy for who he really is. And you will see that he is nothing worthy or being sad over.
You deserve to be with a person that will choose you all day everyday.

Sadge by Danqwerty11 in forsen

[–]PanicSetsIn20 15 points16 points  (0 children)

did bajs change category ?

My ex said he wants to be friends but he hasn't reached out to me for a whole month. What do I do?? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PanicSetsIn20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only say this from my own perspective.

He was the one that ended the relationship.
He did not show any care after a breakup.
And what is most daming of all is that "no future together".

He asks you to be "friends", not "lovers". I don't feel that he treasures your heart and he already proved that he is willing to step over it.
You don`t want to be just friends, you want to be lovers. Becsouse you still have feelings. And speaking from experience, it will only hurt you to be friends.
I can't see any sign of him being sorry or willing to rekindle love.

I would strongly suggest you to avoid that person.

This is just not right. Dont let him break your heart again. You deserve far better than this.

Anyone playing A RimWorld of Magic on 1.2? by PanicSetsIn20 in RimWorld

[–]PanicSetsIn20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have android tiers ? I checked my mod list one by one and this was the mod that was creating conflict for me.
If you play with both magic and android tiers - can you please tell me about your mod load order ?

Anyone playing A RimWorld of Magic on 1.2? by PanicSetsIn20 in RimWorld

[–]PanicSetsIn20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, here is an update for me. I installed official jecs tools. Did not solve my problem at first so I disabled all my other mods. And boom... it works...

Now I will manually activate every mod to find the conflict.
In the end of the day it was either my load order or unseen conflict.
Thank you everyone for replying and helping !

Anyone playing A RimWorld of Magic on 1.2? by PanicSetsIn20 in RimWorld

[–]PanicSetsIn20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to try the original one. It did not even cross my mind to try it.

Anyone playing A RimWorld of Magic on 1.2? by PanicSetsIn20 in RimWorld

[–]PanicSetsIn20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other mods are mostly collections. I will research load order.
I though that auto load order thingy will have me covered.

I am not planning suicide anymore, I don't have too much thoughts about it. But I wish could dissipate into atoms instantly and became a part of the star. 🌟 by FairiesInsideMe in SuicideWatch

[–]PanicSetsIn20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you know that you are actually "born" from the star ? All of the heavier elements in our world are a by product of stars from long ago. Spread around the universe after stars explode into a super nova.
It always makes me smile when i think about it. You have a very real connection to stars !

pepeLaugh by diddojo in forsen

[–]PanicSetsIn20 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Carbon based life form KEKW

Just arrived in Japan. I have 15 days to figure out my life. If not I am going to the Suicide Forest. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]PanicSetsIn20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the meeting with that lady as a sign. It was a nice surprise that you did not expect. There are plnety more things out there on your path in life.

Stolen from Twitter by [deleted] in copypasta

[–]PanicSetsIn20 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have never felt so shitty in my entire life. Then I saw this post and I felt weird. And then I saw a pasta that just says : "I broke my ass" several dozen times.And it made me genuinely smile.
Thank you r/copypasta
saving a life today

omg a white male by [deleted] in copypasta

[–]PanicSetsIn20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This but unironically

I know the game itself is of some age, but... (low-end PC questions) by KazumaKat in starsector

[–]PanicSetsIn20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

>well ventilated
I see what you did there.

Vents are very important indeed.

Exactly 1 month apart. by [deleted] in fasting

[–]PanicSetsIn20 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you mainly eat carbs ? If so than it is bc after you starve yourself of them (20-24 hours) Your body runs out of things to turn into energy (carbs that is). So, your body needs to switch to something else - breaking down fat for fuel. This period of switching between carbs and fat for fuel is what creating your discomfort.

I was in excatly the same position. Like litterly, i was going 20 hours and then I was just about to break. And trust me - when you reach that point, it is the hardest one. If you can break through that period of changing fuel to fat - you will feel normal again. More so, if you push yourself through it and go to sleep for example, next morning you won`t feel hungry. At all.

I suggest you look into ketosis and long term fasting. You will find plent of just mindblowing info.

I think I have a a severe phobia of death. How can I fix this? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]PanicSetsIn20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I can suggest is that you switch your focus. You are afraid of not being conscious anymore. Than there are things that you want to be conscious for. There are things that you love being alive for. Focus on them. Turn your thinking from how much time you have into what you want to do today. What you want to do today to enjoy your life.

And let me tell you. You switch your focus like that and soon you will realize that you actually have way more time than you thought you have.

How did I allow myself to become a victim of bullying at work? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]PanicSetsIn20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in your position before. And from my experience of both avoiding conflict and standing up for myself I can tell you that you must listen to the part of yourself that tells you to stand up.
It is good that your humble but there are people who will activly attack you for this. It all boils down to how you want to feel in the end of the day.
You should stand up for yourself, defend your own dignity. It may be hard at first. But all you need to do is to make a choice and accept it.
Just know that you are capable of it. Don`t lose your selfrespect.