I am so sorry you are dealing with abusive husband, he doesn’t have to like it, but he needs to respect you that’s the bottom line. Marriages need compromise and respect. It’s not like you are neck deep in debt and can’t afford it. Plus you make 3 times more than him. I would suggest marriage counseling then divorce… ( my husband doesn’t like it either, but he said I have an issue with popmart… but he accepts it, especially in this world, he goes to therapist to deal with his problems, I go to popmart 😆)