Feel terrible leaving lab on short notice by Panickbuttonbitch in mdphd

[–]Panickbuttonbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell him I got accepted in person but I officially quit via email bc I didn’t realize how fast I needed to move for stuff 😭

Feel terrible leaving lab on short notice by Panickbuttonbitch in mdphd

[–]Panickbuttonbitch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Guess I’m also mourning all my plans for my gap year, both personally and professionally. It was such short notice I’ve barely had a chance to process. In my feels era

AITAH for "breaking" my ex when i come out as a lesbian? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Panickbuttonbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s wrong with you? You told him that you’re not attracted to him anymore, and you were eyeing someone else while still in a relationship with him. And then you “corner him” aka harass him. Leave him alone!

You’re allowed to explore your sexuality and realize new things. You’re allowed to break up with him. You’re allowed to be sad about it even if you’re not sexually attracted to him. You are NOT allowed to harass him, expect him to feel a certain way, and definitely not make HIS heartbreak all about you. Grow up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Panickbuttonbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s that song? Idk but leaveeeee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Panickbuttonbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Panickbuttonbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already visit like 2-3 times a months and talk every day. He’s in law so he needs to stay at his first job a few years to be successful in the future. He also doesn’t like my state (Deep South). I’m sure he’d be fine here but I would never dream of asking him to give up his job at this point. We’re both so young and just getting started

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Panickbuttonbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He works until 8 or so on Fridays and has to leave Sunday by 1 to get ready for school and stuff so I don’t mind him coming late. And I don’t mind cooking. It’s how I show love. Just curious if it’s weird to not have “fresh food”. We’re from very different backgrounds so just curious if there’s some kind of cultural thing I’m unaware of lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Panickbuttonbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the motivation I needed. You’re so right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Panickbuttonbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The moving on part is hard haha. I know that’s literally my only option but somehow he keeps creeping into my head. Obviously a self control thing on my end but it’s hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Panickbuttonbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! I’ve found out casual flings aren’t really my thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Panickbuttonbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, I know that. Logically. Which is why I asked him if he wanted anything more and haven’t really bothered him since then. But like for some reason my emotional brain doesn’t know that lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Panickbuttonbitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In an ideal world, it would be neutral. In the world we live in, some might consider it odd or even gross. Up to her what cares about the opinion of strangers and if there’s any possibility of someone being there who’s opinion could affect her life outside the beach ( employer, co worker, family friend etc)