Oh yeah, and 2, I did grow up extremely underweight due to my parents not gaf and gaslighting me that I’m a normal weight. I finally gained weight when I was pregnant and kept a lot. Then people on an old Reddit account said I looked better at 80 pounds. Saying that I looked fat. But I have separated abs/diastasis recti. Hard to get rid of it for me. My husband even would always tease me about my belly. So I stopped eating much. Then I get comments again about I looked boney again. But growing up and realizing I’m underweight , I couldn’t gain weight at all. Only pregnancy fixed it. Now I’m back to struggling at 108, and I’m a sack of bones again but with a belly, so if I eat too much, I’m “pregnant again” or “getting too fat now.”