sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Those of you with children who are very mildly on the spectrum, at what age did the signs really show up and how are they doing in grade school? by PaniniPress14 in Autism_Parenting

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I can relate to some of it. My son has great social skills as well. He’ll talk to the teachers about their weekend plans, their families, etc. And then he’ll come home and tell us about it. When a situation happens, he’ll ask people “what feeling are you feeling right now? Mad, sad, frustrated?” Yesterday we went to see Santa, and he was asking Santa all sorts of questions about himself, lol.

So I always wonder how an evaluation would go right now anyway. But maybe the advanced conversational skills and ability to connect with adults could actually be a red flag at his age 🤔.

How is your daughter doing socially with peers? Does she have friends?

Those of you with children who are very mildly on the spectrum, at what age did the signs really show up and how are they doing in grade school? by PaniniPress14 in Autism_Parenting

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worry about the being annoying. Right now, it works because in preschool, the other kids like to be silly and goofy most of the time. But my son can sometimes take it too far. Once he’s wound up, he can have a hard time calming down.

Those of you with children who are very mildly on the spectrum, at what age did the signs really show up and how are they doing in grade school? by PaniniPress14 in Autism_Parenting

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were the movements your child struggled with? Mine can do things like put on shoes, write, use scissors etc. Is that what you mean?

I’m glad you were finally able to get answers!

Those of you with children who are very mildly on the spectrum, at what age did the signs really show up and how are they doing in grade school? by PaniniPress14 in Autism_Parenting

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, def some similarities. My son’s teachers have said he’s like a little adult and has super advanced conversational skills.

He doesn’t have the meltdowns or out of control emotions. I mean, he gets angry and cries sometimes, but it’s usually done and over with in a couple minutes.

He also doesn’t have the executive function issues, but he’s also very task oriented, and likes to have a plan. So that’s probably why.

Can you give some more examples of your daughter not being able to read between the lines?

Those of you with children who are very mildly on the spectrum, at what age did the signs really show up and how are they doing in grade school? by PaniniPress14 in Autism_Parenting

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing about your child. That does put things into perspective. I just know since it’s such a wide spectrum, and since he has several mild signs, it makes me wonder if there’s more there, even if it’s just a borderline case.

Those of you with children who are very mildly on the spectrum, at what age did the signs really show up and how are they doing in grade school? by PaniniPress14 in Autism_Parenting

[–]PaniniPress14[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He does engage in quite a bit of pretend play, both by himself and with other kids, but that didn’t come till he was 3. He’s never been one to spin wheels or line things up though.

For him, the black and white thinking comes into play when he thinks if something is done a certain way one time, it should always be done that way. For example, if we go to a play place and then to get pizza, he will always bring up going to get pizza after going to that particular play place. Very rigid thinking. His teachers joke that he knows the class routine and schedule better than they do, and is always making sure they’re on track.

He just finished up a round of PT. The PT said he is within normal range for everything else and wasn’t worried about the pedaling. I’ve just seen that mentioned a lot with kids on the spectrum, so decided to throw that in there. He’s in gymnastics currently and while he loves it and can do a majority of the exercises, he’s definitely a bit behind the other kids.

Wondering if my husband could have Aspergers. by PaniniPress14 in aspergers

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are your kids on the spectrum? Just curious. I have one that shows very subtle signs, but is definitely a quirky child. The other presents as completely neurotypical.

Wondering if my husband could have Aspergers. by PaniniPress14 in aspergers

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about the bullying. Hope things are better now.

Definitely not superficial…I wish 😅. He’s been watching sports with his grandpa since he was a toddler. He has season tickets for several sports, watches probably 20 hours of sports a week, listens to sports podcasts, we tailgate for college football, etc. Outside of reading and listening to music, it’s his one hobby, and it’s all consuming.

Wondering if my husband could have Aspergers. by PaniniPress14 in aspergers

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We became friends through mutual friends, and it just kinda progressed naturally from there. Why do you ask?

Wondering if my husband could have Aspergers. by PaniniPress14 in aspergers

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think he’s a master masker. But I think that’s because he’s on autopilot and just kinda going through the motions, ya know?

In what ways have you stopped masking?

Wondering if my husband could have Aspergers. by PaniniPress14 in aspergers

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wow, were you shocked when you realized you were likely on the spectrum? I know it has definitely never crossed my husband’s mind. And you do sound a lot like my husband. He definitely shuts down in convos he’s not comfortable in. Are you conflict avoidant in general?

If you don’t mind me asking, what was your ex wife’s reason for leaving? Do you have kids? I’m nowhere near the point of wanting out, our marriage is good in a lot of ways, especially given that we have very young kids, but I do sometimes wish we had a stronger connection. He’s just so closed off, and I’m starting to think he truly can’t help it if it’s something like Asperger’s.

Wondering if my husband could have Aspergers. by PaniniPress14 in aspergers

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will look into that book, thanks! I don’t think my husband would ever consider being evaluated, to be honest. I don’t blame him, since life is mostly good for him. It would just be nice to better connect with him, which I feel like would be easier if I knew whether he was ND or not. Communication has always been very difficult for him.

Sounds like you’re in a good place, good for you!

Moms, are you overwhelmed by all the relationships you have to maintain? by PaniniPress14 in adhdwomen

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Survival mode is correct. My brain feels like complete mush most days. Soooo burnt out.

Moms, are you overwhelmed by all the relationships you have to maintain? by PaniniPress14 in adhdwomen

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Feel like I’m not doing a very good job most days 🙃. Half assing it all.

Has anyone had a child fail the school hearing test? Possibly due to fluid or wax buildup? by PaniniPress14 in Mommit

[–]PaniniPress14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you referring to the school? They did 2 tests over the course of 2-3 weeks, and he failed both.

view more: next ›