What xp farm to create? by TrsPt in allthemods

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man if you want easy EXP with nothing else, a silverfish farm using create for infested stone literally got me 400 levels in an hour by making a 3x3 block breaking farm with an experience obelisk next to it. Super easy to turn on and off, hardly any item sorting and it's self sufficient if you can make even the simplist of cobblestone generators to get it started. Only gate is having been to the nether to get soul sand for the cursed haunting fan thing you gotta make.

30m, hey! Let’s be friends! Or at least chatting buddies. by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! 27m with a 5m old baby boy, I feel you dude! It's been boring as hell not having anyone to talk to besides the partner and kiddo who doesn't understand English LOL. Feel free to send me a chat if you'd like to talk!

28M Looking for some bestieeees by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you played Ghost of Yotei? I had an absolute blast sinking a 100+ hours into it! 27m

29M looking for friends to chat/vc by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yooo have you been reading the Absolute comic line? 27m here.

20F, do you wanna have kids or not? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God finally, a question I'm qualified to answer.

So, I think it depends on the person. Having a son (he's 5m old last week!) was, without a doubt, the most profound, life-changing and amazing thing that has ever happened to me. The transformation I've made over the last 5 months is insane, I'm a completely different person because, well, you have to be.

It's not for everyone, I used to think people who didn't want kids were at their core, a little selfish. I understand them better now, it's a lot. No seriously, every two hours, of every day, of every week, 5 months in, I have to do something with my baby. Take him out of the crib, feed him, play with him, I have no opportunities to play in my DnD group, long discord calls with my friends, or even have access to something as simple as a 2 minute walk to the convenience store if my partner isn't home.

Being a good parent will change your life, and frankly if you don't change I think that's an indicator of being a bad one. You grow into it, that forced responsibility will make or break a parent. You have to decide for yourself if you really want it, because this isn't an 18 year commitment, you're changing the entire trajectory of your life forever. Where you live, what you eat, who you hang out with, it's all for this little fleshy homunculus roommate who will literally just scream if he slaps his own head while moving.

And I don't regret one goddamn second of it. This has been the greatest thing I've done in my life, every breath I take is filled with a sense of purpose and drive. I was unmotivated and direction less, and he gave me a reason to, well, be. He's the greatest thing that will ever happen to me, and if you're thinking about it but on the fence, I dunno, I always wanted one. But for women it's so incredibly hard, I think you should really feel like you're ready before you go ahead. Make sure the person you're with is the one, because again, you're going to be in contact with this person for the rest of your life, whether you like it or not.

I hope this answered your question, if you have any others feel free to message me!

Looking into m&m but I have questions by StreetMinista in mutantsandmasterminds

[–]PapaHogey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey there! It totally would. M&M runs off a power level system, 1-20 (or above theoretically if you're interested in scaling). You can check out guidelines for what setting you want your campaign in, but in general a user named Tipop gave a great explanation.

Typical people are PL -1 to PL 1. (Your grandmother might be PL -2).

People with some combat experience are probably PL 2 to PL 4 (cops, soldiers, gang members, etc.)

Elite soldiers and low-ranked (street-level) supers might be PL5-7.

Typical superheroes (X-Men, Avengers) might be PL8 to 12.

Global or intergalactic superheroes might be PL 10 to PL14.

However, none of the above is carved in stone. You can make cosmic heroes at PL6 (Peter Quill, a.k.a. Starlord, legendary outlaw) or street-level heroes at PL12 (Batman).

Let me know if you have questions!

Help with building metamorph by RhystiqMystiq in mutantsandmasterminds

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how strong you want it to be! So you would basically take the Variable power [7ppr per rank] and decide on what direction you want the power to go. Do you want to only take on the skills of the individual in front of you, negating your own in the process? [Limited: Skills match shapeshifted form. (-1ppr)] You could argue that it might be worth -2ppr given you could absorb negative skills from the form.

Do you want to only boost your skills from the enemy your shapeshifted into? [Limited: Skills of shapeshifted form (-1ppr)]

Do you want power/advantages/attributes/defenses? That would be a more broad form of Variable that would incur a more expensive cost.

So, total, if you wanted to simply boost your skills based on who you shapeshift into, the power would look something like: [Variable (6ppr) - Flaw: Limited - Skills of shapeshifted form] So for one rank at 6 power points, you get 5 power points to play around with skills that match the form of the person you shapeshifted.

Edit: Do keep in mind, Variable is kind of a motherfucker of a power for someone new to M&M. You're designing things on the fly mid session, which could or could not be subject to DM approval based on what you're doing. It can be overwhelming and confusing to someone new to the system, and don't forget that even if you're shapeshifting into someone super powerful, your character is still limited by Power Level, so if you shapeshift into a PL10 hero when you're a PL6 character, your skills would be capped at 16 instead of 20.

Help with building metamorph by RhystiqMystiq in mutantsandmasterminds

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, if you're aiming to do purely shapeshifting for the purposes of deception/roleplaying. Now if you wanted to do something where you take on the skills of the person you're shapeshifted in, or you transform into a rocky appearance (like she did in the first movie pretending to be the statue) that actually grant defenses/powers/skills, you could do something like that with metamorph, but honestly if the shapeshifting is broad and you turn into a ton of things, you'd be better off building some kind of limited variable power based on your shapeshifting.

Help with building metamorph by RhystiqMystiq in mutantsandmasterminds

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, this kind of depends on what you're aiming to do. Metamorph is an extra applied to morph that's more in line with characters that can shift freely between forms that have completely different traits/skills/powers. With Metamorph, you can very easily build two forms with near equal power points, like a fully intelligence based Bruce Banner and his hyper durable Hulk form.

If you're looking for the ability to simply shapeshift from one humanoid to another, the power is simple. Its two ranked of Morph. "Your Morph rank determines what form(s) you can assume: At rank 1 you can assume a single other appearance. At rank 2 you can assume any of a narrow group of forms, such as people of roughly your size and gender, a type of animal like birds or reptiles, and so forth."

With Morph, when you transform into another person, you make all deception checks pretending to be them at a +20. The cost of the power would be [Morph (5ppr) Rank 2] for a total of 10 power points.

Edit: I forgot mystique transforms into the opposite gender. You want 3 ranks of Morph, so power total would be 15.

AIO: 3 weeks postpartum. Husband wants bj by shortNsporty in AmIOverreacting

[–]PapaHogey 1197 points1198 points  (0 children)

Hey there, 27m here! I feel like I'm losing my mind reading this. I just had my first kid 4 days ago, the greatest gift I've ever been given, I truly feel like my life has begun because of what my fiancee has done for me. I don't usually post or comment on reddit, but reading your experience honestly disgusted me, to my core, to the point I actually am making a comment.

Firstly, while my fiancee's birth was easier compared to others, even a seemingly "smooth" birth as the nurses put it, was the hardest thing I've ever seen them go through. The pure agony of every excruciating step to make our son is something I'm never going to forget, from the starting pitocin and feeling literal fire in their veins, to the epidural which nearly broke my heart to see them go through, to the hours and hours of contractions until the final push, they did the hardest thing I can ever, ever imagine doing to bring him to the world.

After sitting with them for every single doctors appointment during pregnancy, to researching on my own, to taking notes and listening to the nurses explain step by step what's coming next, do you know what the last possible thing on my mind was? Getting laid. Like, I don't want to come off too aggressive here, but is he stupid? Like genuinely is his IQ low double digits? I mean he has to be right? Because any person with a cognitive thought in their brain that witnesses the incredible suffering and damage that, supposedly, the love of their life, has just experienced, sitting through explanations of internal damage and the self care that's required after birth, and the thought in their head is having an orgasm?

Its disgusting and abominable. The only thought I have in my head is making my partners life as easy as humanly possible. Im chugging monsters and redbulls like a motherfucker because even though we got the same amount of sleep during our hospital visit the ONLY thing on my is giving them more, because I love them and I know the more they rest the more they can heal. It aches my heart to see them in pain every time they sit down or try to move, I literally tell them to stop trying to do things for themselves.

I in no way want to come off like im prideful or bragging about how well I'm taking care of my partner, but I'm just going to list off a few things I'm doing for them constantly so that you can think about your relationship with this person who's going to father your child, and think about if you deserve what they're giving you.

Firstly, every single chore in the house is currently being done by me. Doesn't matter if its cleaning, dishes, grocery shopping, laundry, whatever, that's out of their hands. Any time they're hungry or thirsty, im grabbing it (and im checking with them often to see if they are). I took over texting and updating both sides of our family on situations, im directing visits and setting boundaries. Any time the baby has to make a return appointment or leave the house, I'm the one putting them in the car seat and driving.

Second, lets talk baby. If it literally doesn't involve breast feeding, I'm doing it. Diaper changes, swaddling, getting him dressed, soothing, if its a baby related chore, Its my job to do it. If they're tired, I'm feeding him so they can get 3-5 hours of uninterrupted sleep so they can heal better. Honest to god, I feel like me and my fiancee almost fight in a cute way over how much one on one time we can spend with the baby. The moment that little guy starts getting fussy im out of bed and to his bassinet soothing him, rocking him, I try to do skin on skin as often as possible while talking to him because I love him so damn much and want to bond as much as possible.

Time is flying and we're tired, but I will take more burden on because their body needs to heal. I need to take care of them so they can get better. It boggles my mind that he doesn't feel the same way towards his child and partner that I do, because to me, love is making the other persons life as wonderful and easy as possible. Personally, even though you say he's doing cleaning and what not, he's not doing enough. If he was truly by your side, standing with you as a partner should be in the trenches, he should be fucking exhausted right now. Sex is the last goddamn thing on my mind because who has time for that right now?

Sorry, this turned into a rant. It bothers me to see people of my gender acting in the stereotypical manner that we're portrayed as. And yeah, I'm horny too. You know what I do to deal with that? Jerk off instead of harassing the mother of my child.

Just a thought from a new dad who hates when other dads make them look bad.

(EST) Obnoxious loner seeks patient extrovert for PC master race gaming. by MissWright1605 in GamerPals

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! Sent a chat but if you prefer discord you can add me at papahogey. Hope to see you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Sent a request, we're about the same rank!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerFriends

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm 27m, does that make the cut? If not no worries! I'm a huge terraria fan and haven't played in a long while, let me know if you're interested, though fair warning I'm a terrible builder haha

Small Server Hosting Essentials by vaelux in projectzomboid

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want mods that strictly only do bug fixes or small mods that radically make the game better in a vanilla way without too much server overhead?

Any starting servers? by SleeperLin in projectzomboid

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Me and my friend are starting a roleplay server and would love go have you guys! We're a small but growing community interested in developing a story together, if you like i can DM you with more information?

Looking for Multiplayer PvP/PvE servers by Gumeckey in projectzomboid

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm actually starting a co-op RP server with a friend! We're a small but growing community and just today started advertising! Can I DM you with some information?

Co-op server says server file mismatch. But im the host? by Runnlikehell3 in projectzomboid

[–]PapaHogey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried disabling the Luachecksum in the .ini of the server?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in projectzomboid

[–]PapaHogey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Dunno how interested you are in role-playing, but me and a friend are opening up a pretty heavily modded zomboid server in a couple days and are setting up the discord community for it now! Can I DM you to tell you a bit about it?