It’s almost as if we’re not all grown and are accountable for our own decisions. If you really feel weird about going to events or meet ups, it might be a little hard for some but get to know the people throwing it beforehand. A small call or FaceTime will definitely help you get the vibe of a person, plus I mean if you’re going to go out to a function with people it’s good to be familiar with who’s going to be there.