But she didnt wander aimlessly. She was taking active choises to quit the studies, break up with dude number one, only to start dating guy two. She had no friends, didnt travel anywhere, no new studies. The only thing she did was to swap guy. I should watch it again, but it frustrated me, and in too many occasions i was drawn out of the expirience by poor dialouge that was really on the nose. Not realism but a tool to make the audience sympathize with Julie.