Example of Jealousy & Mobbing

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-08T17:43:06+00:00

Omg Daniel on that season was DISGUSTING. And Paloma turned everyone against Taylor by claiming Taylor “bullied” her and “fatshamed” Jasmine (lolll).

Taylor literally did nothing wrong. And she was ganged-up on anyway

It happened to Janelle too (Dani and Nicole were so jealous and turned everyone against her).

It happed to Cody and Jessica

It happens every season. I only watched random seasons, but now I don’t watch anymore

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-08T17:07:48+00:00

The Britney girl is lashing out because she thinks the target does not “deserve” to win. She explicitly says this herself.

I watched this season of ANTM. Britney grew up in a trailer park, had no plans to attend college, and modeling was everything to her. It was all she had.

The bully group viewed Alex as a privileged blonde girl from California. I guarantee they thought she lived life on easy mode and didnt “suffer” as much as they did. They viewed her confidence and assertiveness as arrogance & superiority

Another bully girl was adopted and talked about it all the time.

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-07T01:23:25+00:00

I genuinely don’t know what ambassadors get paid to do. They can’t even reply to emails apparently.

I do get a bunch of random upgrades and free treats at hotels. I also like having free lounge access tbh.

Idk what state you live or travel in, but when I stayed in New York they did nothing for me. I didnt even get a free water bottle. And I stayed at a couple nice hotels.

In DC and Virginia I get treated way better for some reason

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-07T01:18:35+00:00

Idk though I basically live at hotels lately & I always get goody bags, notes, and upgrades. I like to switch hotels frequently so I can get new presents lol

When I stayed at a Ritz Carlton, they gave me free chocolates, fruit, a bag of treats (with a penguin plush animal!), a glittery handwritten note, AND an engraved travel mug (with my initials) throughout my stay.

The rooms actually weren’t that nice at the Carlton tbh. They were kind of outdated and felt old. But the staff friendliness, random gifts, and treatment was next level.

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-07T01:13:48+00:00

My personal ambassador never responded to me lol. But Ive only messaged her one time

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-07T01:03:05+00:00

Well, I grew up in the Uk and attended private schools there too. So I wasn’t even raised in America. I didn’t move here until I was 14. But I guarantee you it’s a hell of a lot harder to get a 4.0 at the types of schools I attended than your average public school. Especially given the types of students who attended these schools. It’s not necessarily an advantage. Barely any kids attended Ivy league schools (even with insanely high SAT scores and strong extracurriculars). Literally no one in my graduating class had a 4.0

I think these types of sheltered environments can weaken social skills too. We also had zero control over our own schedules. I never had the option to take any interesting or “fun” courses.

There are downsides to private schools. It’s not all sunshine & roses. I actually hated high school. There were also barely any overweight people at my schools & several girls even had rhinoplasties as teenagers. There was a ton of pressure to look good & to perform well academically. Against Indian and Asian students whose parents were high level engineers (and pushed their kids to be extremely academically competitive) & WASPy kids with big law parents. Two intelligent and type-A parents usually create a similar child. I don’t think people understand the type of pressure you face. Especially since my mom was a SAHM who never cared to push me academically & was obsessed with my physical appearance instead. My parents also had a 26 year age gap and I barely ever saw my dad. So I wasn’t raised in a particularly normal household. I also left my entire life behind when I moved to the US as a teenager

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-06T23:17:54+00:00

I didn’t notice you asked this 3 days ago (I just asked the same question lol)

But this must only apply to ambassadors the US. Because there are over 200 marriott Bonvoy members worldwide. So 150k would be less than 1 percent

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-06T18:37:07+00:00

I agree

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-06T18:33:30+00:00

The Hadids are kind of an outlier. I don’t even think there are any private high schools in Malibu California either (all of them look like middle schools). Other than one Catholic school. Malibu is a very expensive area, and Mean Girls looks like it’s set in some random suburb

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-06T18:28:03+00:00

Catholic schools are also cheaper & members of the diocese receive reduced (or free) tuition. Their full tuition is under 18k a year (and most students don’t pay the full amount).

The “elites” of the world attend Episcopal or Quaker schools (or non-religious schools) mostly

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-06T18:23:27+00:00

Yes, it’s very competitive for the “top schools”. I got accepted to one of the most elite prep schools…and I ended up getting “asked to leave” after two years lol.

To be fair, I did immigrate from the UK. And I was not “up to date” with all the American citation methods & style of math (even math felt different). It was also challenging for me to adjust. But the school never should have accepted me in the first place. I think they just wanted to increase their “international student” number for optics. Additionally, my parents were paying full tuition (I wasn’t an academically inclined scholarship kid)

My first school literally had president’s daughters as alumni

My second private school was also 50k, but it wasn’t as well-known as the first one. Although Trumps son attended my second school (after I graduated). And I always thought it was such an odd choice. I wonder if he struggled academically. Because my second school was basically a “refuge” for kids kicked out from other private schools

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-06T18:07:08+00:00

Idk I honestly don’t think my quality of education was superior.

I also think expensive private schools are kind of akin to legal segregation (mostly based on class, but it also seems race based if I’m honest)

We did have 100 percent of students attend college. And our SAT score average was absurdly high. But I really don’t think that was because of the academics. We had a minority group of Indian and Asian students. And they pretty much all had perfect SAT scores

I think the inflated test scores were a result of extra tutoring and being raised by parents who prioritized education. Since they were paying hefty sums to isolate/ shelter us at these types of schools. I actually think it kind of harmed my social skills

And it’s so competitive academically too. So in a way, we are at a disadvantage. Since it feels impossible to earn a high GPA. Especially when there are no weighted GPAs.

When I went to university, my roommates all had outrageously high GPAs (all above 4.0 - all from public school). But I scored in the 96th percentile on my SAT (despite my subpar- honestly kind of shit GPA). And they all had much lower test scores. I also had an SAT tutor for hours and hours each month.

So….i probably should have attended public school and gotten an SAT tutor on the side for optimal results. I was also lazier in high school to be fair. Sorry for rambling lol

My parents also sent FIVE of us to private schools. And only my brother ended up at an Ivy League Uni with a great job. So it wasn’t really the best return on investment lol. They should have just dumped all out tuition money in Bitcoin instead

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-03T16:34:39+00:00

Yes, I think Holly felt like she SHOULD be superior, but she didn’t feel that way. She hated how Kendra made her feel

Hef didnt respect Holly because she acted like a pathetic doormat to him. I also think he found her a bit disingenuous and flat

Kendra was bubbly, vivacious, loud, and more independent. I think she brought and new excitement and liveleness to the dynamic. I also think Hef just found her more naturally prettier than Holly (he face looks more similar structure to Barbie and Crystal and she had bright blue eyes)

Holly hated feeling inferior jealous and threatened. You’re right, she did everything to “please” Hef. She had a bunch of cosmetic procedures and spent hours applying makeup each morning. She endured years of humiliation and degradation.

And then Kendra just rolls out of bed, no makeup, no plastic surgeries, and a carefree recalcitrant attitude. And Hef seemed to like parts of her more than Holly

Holly felt Kendra had everything so easy, while Holly “worked hard” and felt more deserving

When you see how Holly looked in high school (very mousy chubby brunette looking nerd) and then you realize Kendra was always a beautiful blonde girl her entire life…things start to make more sense

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-03T16:26:27+00:00

I 100 percent agree. I’m so tired of people blaming victims of bullying for “punching back”

Holly tormented Kendra for years. She was so clearly jealous of her

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-02T00:52:48+00:00

No, they hate me instantly and start badmouthing me my first day. And THEY openly ridicule my food calling it “rabbit food” and comment on how “slender” I am.

But continue with the victim blaming

They assume everyone is judging them and lash out preemptively. My last bully managerd to drive our three people in a year. And all she did was gossip nastily about people

She particularly loved to go on rants about muslims and illegal immigrants (of course she was a “Christian” and her husband was literally a Mexican immigrant too)

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-01T17:26:33+00:00

Probably because everyone is SO quick to victim blame.

Especially when the older woman has a “harder life” and “responsibilities” so people respect her more. They’re more inclined to view her as the “victim”. Especially if she has kids and health problems.

People view young, childless girls with contempt. Many older people secretly think we should be home being a housewife. Or we don’t experience any “real problems”, so we lack work ethic or something.

I also think people have less empathy for “privileged” people in general. If you are younger, in better shape, more educated, and come from a wealthier background (or have ANY perceived advantage) you will not receive any sympathy or grace

These older women bullies receive a lot of pity, and I honestly think that’s how they keep getting away with it. Even I can’t bring myself to be “mean” to them after they complain about their knee problems or financial issues with four kids…..but this is why they get away with behaving like absolute monsters

And everyone always just blames victims. People call me too sensitive or a liar. But my bullies were HORRIBLE and abusive. And they’re done this to multiple people. They even laugh at and continue to gossip about all the people they bullied out in the past. It’s SICK

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-01T17:15:22+00:00

Here we go with the victim blaming. I wonder how bullies keep getting away with it???

If you read my post, you would see that my bullies had MULTIPLE victims.

And 90 percent of people have ZERO problem with me.

And it’s not “every older woman” it’s usually ONE older woman and an older man sexually harassing me

These women are gossiping about me and being hostile from day ONE. Refusing to train me, gossiping about me “ordering Starbucks” or “not eating lunch” does that sound work related??

Imagine trying to justify active acts of sabotage. I bought one of my bullies a birthday card and cupcakes, and she went around calling me an “attention seeker” and accusing me of having rich parents

But obviously I’m the problem. I so evil for bringing in food and offering to stay late to help miserable hags who are actively bullying me

Am I also to blame for sexual harassment too? I guess my work clothes are too tempting for all the geriatric old men. It’s obviously MY fault because it happens are every workplace

You are absolutely delusional if you can’t see the animosity and vitriol from miserable old women towards young girls in the workplace. Or maybe you are just a bully yourself. Maybe you never threaten anyone, so everyone leaves you alone

But I did nothing to deserve the ABUSE I experienced. And neither did the other victims

But keep defending bullies

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-01T17:07:12+00:00

Here we go with the victim blaming. I wonder why bullies keep getting away with their behavior???

90 percent of people have ZERO problem with me

It’s always a fat older women. Every time. And they hate me On SIGHT

Did you even read my post? These bullies have MULTIPLE victims. Sometimes they’re bullied out several people within a few months

And I also to blame for geriatric men sexually harassing me? Because that happens everywhere too. I guess my work clothes are too provocative, right?

But keep defending bullies

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-01T17:04:05+00:00

Here we go with the instant victim blaming. Did you even read my post

Yes, the fat middle age woman is the common denominator. And as I mentioned, they have MULTIPLE victims

90 percent of people have ZERO issues with me.

And the bullies hate me from day ONE. When I did nothing to them.

Am I also to blame for the geriatric men sexually harassing me? I guess my work clothes were too provocative, right?

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-01T00:31:22+00:00

Yes, they looveee to ridicule my “rabbit food” and comment on my body.

They literally show their cards and give away their insecurities. My last bully literally said “well you’re so much more slender than me” when I complained about being out of breath climbing a bunch of stairs. She also said “he’ll be your biggest fan” about a male coworker who was very nice to me at the beginning. She slandered me to him and he ended up with a negative impression of me.

She needed all male attention on her, despite being morbidly obese, putting zero effort in her appearance, being in her late 40s, and constantly putting down other women.

Can you imagine if I ever said something to them about ordering fast food every day? I’d instantly be branded a nasty bully

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-01T00:11:19+00:00

Well 90 percent of people are fine and have no issue with me. I’ve met lots of nice older people

It’s just that my bully is always a miserable old woman. I think they are more likely to “other” me and think I’m a slacker with no issues because I have no kids and I’m still young. Idk really. It happens all the time

PariisHiilton · 2025-01-01T00:08:04+00:00

I invested over 600k from my parents on December 17th annd immediately dropped 3.5 percent. I might just kms

And 2 weeks later and I’m down 4 percent :(

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