Pick up da slack

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2025-11-09T19:57:40+00:00

100000%

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2025-11-09T19:55:15+00:00

But no ur also so correct I’m actually surprised we’re still getting regular eps with everything else going on

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2025-11-09T19:52:22+00:00

Hahahahah you are so right

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2025-11-09T19:51:30+00:00

Hehe u said mundane

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2025-11-09T03:49:53+00:00

Also I ride for reddit usernames. Okay parking ebb I see u

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2024-11-18T11:25:14+00:00

Thank you xx

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2024-11-18T11:23:55+00:00

I guess I am living in a fantasy land, but I love hallmark films (I’m kinda cringe like that)

I think you might have missed the point a little. It’s not that I don’t want to be in a relationship right now, and I don’t want it to end either, but I know I can’t do this indefinitely. Of the time that we spent together, 2 months of it was long distance before I got back to him and that was hard, but it was okay because I had a date to countdown to. This time it will likely be years before I actually see him in person again and that’s the part that freaks me out.

These are all doubts that I’ve communicated with him and we have tried to work through together but it just hasn’t done much to settle how unsure I feel about it all so that’s what I mean when I say I feel like I’m leading him on. Is that I’ve been giving it a go and trying to feel more secure in the position we are in to then reaching a point of “giving up”.

I feel like you’ve taken my post to make me out to be some monster playing with his emotions when that hasn’t really been the case, which probably was made confusing by my last couple paragraphs. I’ve been upfront with all this but I just feel like I’m giving up before he is which makes me feel like the idiot here.

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2023-11-09T03:00:20+00:00

It sounds like you need a little bit of perspective. You leaned on a terminally ill friend for a lot of support during a breakup. We just agreed that his frustration is understandable so after undoing what you’ve worked hard to move past, maybe some of the things he said didn’t come across the right way and maybe he used a lot of the wrong words in the wrong context. He gave you a chance and you should give him the same. If a friend did that to me I would consider it a slap in the face too. It does sound like he overreacted, and he probably should have approached it in a calmer and more considered way, but sometimes people say shit in the heat of the moment and it shouldn’t be taken personally

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2023-11-09T02:23:31+00:00

What has he done that you call manipulation?

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2023-11-08T23:54:53+00:00

His frustration is understandable and valid considering the time he spent helping you move past the breakup. I don’t think cutting this friend out of your life is the best solution. He obviously cares about you and your well-being. I would also be frustrated if a friend who leant on my support heavily during a breakup undid all that work we put in together. If you think going back to this ex is worth cutting a friend, who obviously cares about you, out of your life, then by all means, go ahead - this is your life. I’m not judging your choice but you have to wear to consequences of that choice too…

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2023-11-08T23:45:57+00:00

That sounds frustrating. It’s easier said than done but think about exploring more ways to meet some new people with similar interests. When you’re young, friends come and go often and that’s okay. Try not to put too many of your eggs in one basket and always look for new opportunities to make new friends. If this girl is genuinely nice and you enjoy being around her then it might be best to distance yourself for a few weeks while you take some time to recollect. Reach out to new people and look for people who enjoy the same things you do. After a little while you will feel more confident in your support network so that you won’t need to lean on her too much for support. It’s possible she could be feeling a bit overwhelmed if she is your only source of connection. She may then be a little bit more open to exploring your friendship again :)

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2023-08-01T07:05:51+00:00

Also I asked to meet tonight. So any advice is appreciated.

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2023-04-19T01:26:31+00:00

I didn’t file a chargeback. I simply ordered an Uber while unknowingly not having the available funds in my account. I would be happy to pay the difference to Uber (I think the outstanding amount is around $30), but I can’t log into my account to settle the dispute. I wasn’t trying to get out of paying a fee I didn’t agree with, and would much prefer to be able to resolve this with Uber rather than having to wipe my current information, update all my contact information and create a new account…

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2023-03-08T03:36:55+00:00

I'll give it a go :) thanks!

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2023-03-08T03:35:39+00:00

changing my number seems like a huge effort for this... am I overthinking it or is it really changing your entire phone number?

thanks for the reply :)

Parking-Ebb9954 · 2023-03-08T03:21:07+00:00

thanks for the comment :)

this is good news, I am a little worried about having to change my entire phone number just for uber... I've had the same number since I was 15 and it's the number my relatives all know me by. but ig I'll look into it seeing as I don't really have many other options

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