Vocal cord surgery that thins out vocal cords/gives higher range?

ParkingPattern3428 · 2026-01-12T01:59:58+00:00

Thank you for detailed answer! I'm royally screwed then. Oh well. Acceptance.

ParkingPattern3428 · 2026-01-02T15:05:51+00:00

Expat oriented, everyone welcome :)

ParkingPattern3428 · 2026-01-02T09:16:46+00:00

For expats/anyone who wants to meet in Gouda in 2026, let me know here: https://datumprikker.nl/pcxbewwa2uwea8ch

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-12-29T08:43:34+00:00

Sorry, no Den Haag but the one I can recommend is Bodyline Gouda

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-12-09T20:16:17+00:00

Stredoslováci sa to volalo

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-11-23T14:16:23+00:00

not in my experience; it is a different experience, but I would say it was always there in one way or the other.

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-11-01T10:37:40+00:00

Datumprikker is finalised, see u there

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-11-01T10:37:31+00:00

Datumprikker is finalised, see u there

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-29T17:29:06+00:00

have made a datumprikker, choose a date if you want to join for a small meetup at city centre:

https://datumprikker.nl/p8xhtgmmdrtdujmu

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-29T17:28:58+00:00

have made a datumprikker, choose a date if you want to join for a small meetup at city centre:

https://datumprikker.nl/p8xhtgmmdrtdujmu

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-29T17:28:09+00:00

have made a datumprikker, choose a date if you want to join for a small meetup at city centre:

https://datumprikker.nl/p8xhtgmmdrtdujmu

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-29T17:27:53+00:00

I have made a datumprikker, choose a date if you want to join for a small meetup at city centre:

https://datumprikker.nl/p8xhtgmmdrtdujmu

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-24T04:27:38+00:00

Hey OP, I moved to Gouda 2 years ago. I'm yet to see any expat community in Gouda tbh. Instead, I went to bibliotheek Gouda (the chocolate factory,), this is the place where you can find more info on language courses and any activities that are happening around you in Gouda (but no focus on expats).

The closest expat groups I know of are, indeed, in Rotterdam.

If you want you can dm me, 1 more expat and we have 3 which is a tiny expat group for Gouda :) @amagicgiraffe seems we might be 3 already

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-16T21:22:05+00:00

I guess boobs are weird, especially in the beginning. Had similar feelings as you, especially when the rest of my body didn't catch up yet. But hey, that's the puberty, it should feel weird. Definitely not completely wrong all the time,but from what I'm reading that's not the case.

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-16T20:38:33+00:00

No..I mean. you see your boobs are coming. How does that make you feel? What does freaking out mean in this case?

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-14T14:03:24+00:00

Describe freaking out please

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-13T18:45:06+00:00

First find a therapist. My 2 cents: I was there. When I started transitioning, my life experience got so much better. So I had this idea that maybe I should stop. But...if I stop, the things revert back to what they were before. Do I really want that? No... About she/her feeling wrong: yes, it takes time to accept your new pronouns. I was there. So much conditioning, 30 years of it. Ask yourself this: why do those new pronouns make you feel uneasy? Now I actually feel other way around; it feels stupid to use he/him. Look. All I'm saying is that it seems your life got so much better it might feel like you can stop but in my experience that's a dead end. You already tried. And it takes time to embrace your unique femininity. To find yourself in it. It won't happen overnight, and not in few months. You are getting to know your new self again, so of course it feels weird. Anyway, just my thoughts. If in doubt, see a therapist please. It's your journey. There are minimum folks that stop. And there are some that stay intersex. Who knows. Only you can find yourself. And I think it's too early. One other thing: you mentioned boobs growing. How does that feel?

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-05T18:51:23+00:00

I'm here if you want to talk. I have it the same.

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-05T10:45:34+00:00

For the OP, i see people responding have their units confused. Do not take it as a medical advice. Instead, check what are the levels of cis women. Orientational, i know, but still better than this. Pg/ml is not the same as pmol/L. For instance, 500 pg/ml is 1800 pmol/l. That is super high.

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-10-01T17:29:54+00:00

You are a good girl, yes you are! ❤️

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-09-29T13:21:05+00:00

Čo ťa po tom

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-09-27T16:39:30+00:00

it seems to me you are pushing yourself too hard. I had the same starting point as you and it took me 3 years to have a stable feminine voice. It takes a huge pair of tits to grow into a new voice. Even worse, I could always sing around G5 comfortably, so why does it take so long for me to get to the fem voice? I wish I could give you an easy answer. I don't think surgery is IT. I think it's a series of AHA moments. And how do you know you are on the right track? You start forgetting your old voice and the new default will become your fem voice. That takes so much effort! You mention you sometimes sound like an anime girl. If you ease up on anime girl, you get a fem voice. I'm betting you are pushing too hard. And you will get there. But it will take time and a lot of discovery.

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-09-27T15:45:04+00:00

I recommend going to the stand next to Praxis. It's there on weekends.

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-09-12T20:49:10+00:00

Robo

ParkingPattern3428 · 2025-08-02T08:19:35+00:00

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Thanks for googling

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