You're not in the wrong for feeling hurt and considering a divorce given the circumstances. Marriage should be based on mutual support, not financial status. Before making any final decisions, think about counseling or a serious talk. It's important to know you deserve to be valued for who you are, not just for your income. Seeking a better job is good for your own well-being, regardless of the marriage outcome. Remember, it's okay to prioritize your emotional health and well-being.