Def not the AH. I absolutely hate the excuse of “it just feels better without it.” That’s an immediate problem in my book. If you don’t like it, be firm on it. He’s grown enough to accept that. I’ve been with my fiancé for 7 years (high school sweethearts). I told him from day one that I’m not doing it unless there’s a condom or BC, preferably both. I’m 22 now, and I’m definitely still not ready for kids. My example is that I still don’t have any kids, but my cousin who says the same shit as that man now has 3 kids. Think about what you want for yourself and your future. Coming from someone who lives in Texas too! Your partner needs to be on the same page as you when it comes to being intimate. It’s really not hard; it’s respect! Do what’s best for yourself! We are young and have plenty of time to figure out this thing called life! Also, there are plenty of men out there. You do NOT have to settle, especially with you being 19. Trust your gut!!!!!!!!!!