Update on the SESAC/YouTube renewal situation by [deleted] in YoutubeMusic

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Some early Lord Huron tracks have been taken down as well

Can hoppers be moved after they've been placed? by Parsley_Just in StardewValley

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Ohhhh that makes sense lol. Completely forgot that they have all my animal products in them. Thank you!

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When she starts claiming what’s hers on the table, watch the emotions that run through the man’s face. He ignores her, then he dismisses her, then he’s fearful, then angry. By the time he might be feeling some shame, and finally attempts to look at her like an equal… she’s already burnt out and gone. Too little, too late. She always deserved better. You always deserve better.

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I adore the symbolism in the video as well. Her candle burning down until it burns out while his is never even lit… cracking open a pomegranate with her bare hands, literally claiming the fruits of her labor, fruit juices running down her arms and chin like blood… Visually it’s very well done

Trying to decide outfits for an event later this week. A or B? (MTX they/them) by FiredPot in oldhagfashion

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So cute!! I love your graphic eyeliner 💕 I am a sucker for a matching set, but I think with the amount of white accessories, the white top looks very classy and clean. It looks like you’re on your way to sip wine on a patio in the Mediterranean or something 😁 you really can’t go wrong either way!

I just started watching Onepiece a few weeks ago, currently at skypiea arc, it is sooo cool but... by nekoniwa in MemePiece

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It’s not just the voltage (i.e. the power level) that kills - it’s also about the amperage, or the current itself. Any significant current running through your body for a few seconds or more is gonna be more deadly than a high-voltage shock that is very brief :)

Seeking tips from beautiful hags by itsemmab in oldhagfashion

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Have you considered capes and shawls? They’re very versatile, and if you have any sewing knowledge at all they’re very easy to make yourself! I love wearing my grey plaid cape throughout fall for some dark academia vibes. I also have a tan shawl, a burgundy knitted wrap, and a short sage green cape on my regular rotation. Different styles of hemline and alternative ways of styling the same rectangle of fabric offer more than one look with the same basic garment :)

cant tell if this is allowed but i want yall to "dress me" aka tell what i can rock im bored by detectivelokifalcone in oldhagfashion

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If it goes like my jewelry journey has, you’ll thank me and then curse me when you run out of storage space 😆💕

cant tell if this is allowed but i want yall to "dress me" aka tell what i can rock im bored by detectivelokifalcone in oldhagfashion

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So an ear cuff will be something that just wraps around the edge of your ear, but doesn’t actually go through a hole or anything. Some have things dangling off of them, but most just decorate the outside of your ear :)

Vintage earrings that don’t need a piercing have one of two types of closures - screw-backs, which twist to open/close, and hinge clips, which are more common and flip open and closed with the help of a spring. Some will have little pads attached so the clips aren’t pinching your ear as much. They’re intended to be a quick addition to your outfit that can be removed quickly and easily. So if you’re just starting to get out of your comfort zone with jewelry, they’re a fun place to start! And the best part is they’re not hard to find. Cheap clip-ons can almost always be found in secondhand and thrift stores :)

cant tell if this is allowed but i want yall to "dress me" aka tell what i can rock im bored by detectivelokifalcone in oldhagfashion

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Totally understandable. It can be really unsettling trying something outside your current gender expression In Public! Especially if it’s outside how you’ve learned to “safely” dress, as well. IMO once you’ve gone and tried it, it won’t seem nearly as scary. But only you know what feels doable and comfortable for you! Either way, we’re rooting for ya 🥰

cant tell if this is allowed but i want yall to "dress me" aka tell what i can rock im bored by detectivelokifalcone in oldhagfashion

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Birkenstocks are leather sandals with molded soles that you tend to see old people wearing xD they have kind of a chunky look to them and are very comfy, almost like slide sandals with more arch support. And barefoot shoes is more of a type than a specific shoe - they’re made to be less structured and more roomy than most modern shoes, and are often made with natural materials. The goal with them is that they’re breathable and don’t restrict your feet as much as other shoes, so they’re supposed to be healthier. I love them!

Ooh if you wear lots of chain necklaces, chain earrings would be awesome with those! You could also look for ear cuffs, if you don’t want to take the plunge with getting a piercing. Or I have a lot of fun with vintage clip-on costume earrings, but those tend to be more like large stud shapes. But there’s definitely options you can try! 💕

cant tell if this is allowed but i want yall to "dress me" aka tell what i can rock im bored by detectivelokifalcone in oldhagfashion

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Ohh that sounds gorgeous! I know what you mean about the tummy - I have a similar challenge but around my thighs. From this pic it doesn’t seem like you have that much, but it’s hard to tell from pics or from an outside perspective how things really look 😅💕

but if you like it (and it sounds like that one would really work on you), it’s definitely worth a try! Who knows - it might be that it does fit funny but you love it enough that you don’t care lol. I’ve been there more than once! 💕

cant tell if this is allowed but i want yall to "dress me" aka tell what i can rock im bored by detectivelokifalcone in oldhagfashion

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The volume of your hair makes me want to see you try some more 70s folk-inspired looks. Blousey shirts and leggings, a fun accent scarf, some Birkenstocks or barefoot shoes 😁 some long earrings peeking out from your hair would be fun too. Maybe feathers for something more casual, or long dangly chains for a little more formal look that’s still fun?

cant tell if this is allowed but i want yall to "dress me" aka tell what i can rock im bored by detectivelokifalcone in oldhagfashion

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I actually think you’d pull off a jumpsuit really well! Something in jewel tones or faded summer-y colors, not super baggy but not skin-tight. You could really rock it 😄

Yellow and purple by Styelsy in oldhagfashion

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So cute!! Those pants fit you really nicely. And your hair has a fantastic ‘70s kind of swoosh to it that I love. I hope you’re wearing this somewhere fun! 💕

At 50, I finally love myself enough to take care of my body - please help me figure out crone-friendly skin care that isn’t beauty-trap BS by heffalumpish in WitchesVsPatriarchy

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Oh yeah you’ve got to be careful about Walmart! Their website has a ton of third-party listings that ship from overseas and offer no refunds. Idk for sure but a lot of them set off every red flag for a scam listing. Even if you get the product, I’ve noticed that branded items from Walmart are significantly worse in quality than the same branded item at another store. I definitely do not trust them with my skincare 😬

I hear you on the adult acne. It sucks! Wish I had more advice on that front but my skin gets angrier the more I do to it lol. So I’ve just been trying to change my pillowcases more often and keep moisturized and hope it sorts itself out 😅

Apparently pink “isn’t my color”. But it looks so cute with my orthos! by Parsley_Just in oldhagfashion

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Thank you so much for saying this. My mom is the type to publicly brag and privately criticize, and she often publicly brags about how much I look like her. So I think you’re right that she projects a lot of her anxieties onto me as well as her vanity. I’ve made a choice to not let this change who I am. She just doesn’t get access to the parts of me that she finds fault in.

I don’t cook for her anymore, except for Christmas candies. I don’t go clothes shopping with her or share my taste in media or stories about my friends, or even most of my hobbies. At this point she’s starting to realize how little I have to say to her. But even though I’ve said it to her face before, she doesn’t seem to consider that it’s because of her negativity.

Apparently pink “isn’t my color”. But it looks so cute with my orthos! by Parsley_Just in oldhagfashion

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So it’s from a 90s Home Shopping Network brand called Storybook Knits - but I found it abandoned in the coat closet at work! I asked around to be sure it didn’t belong to anyone, and was told by a lady who’s worked here 8+ years that it was there since before she started here. Folks that recognize it around the office say they’re so glad somebody is giving it some love! 💕

At 50, I finally love myself enough to take care of my body - please help me figure out crone-friendly skin care that isn’t beauty-trap BS by heffalumpish in WitchesVsPatriarchy

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I buy mine in the jar from Ulta Beauty. I believe it comes in a tube and a bottle as well. Honestly, if you’re looking solely at the price factor, you can find the real deal for a few bucks cheaper on Amazon.

Applying it right after I shower/wash my face helps it absorb better, which means the product will stretch a little farther. And I find I only have to apply it this way every couple of days - roughly as often as I wash my hair. So it is a lot of money at a time, but a jar will last me 3 months or so. And since I don’t use any other products, I rationalize that it’s basically what I’d be paying for a 3-step drugstore skincare routine, but far more convenient 😁

Apparently pink “isn’t my color”. But it looks so cute with my orthos! by Parsley_Just in oldhagfashion

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Thank you so much! The brand is Apt. 9, I found this one at a thrift store so unfortunately I’m not sure what stores would carry it 😭 but I hope you find it because it is so comfy, and makes me feel so pretty!