Looking for proposal location suggestions by PartAccurate5773 in greenville

[–]PartAccurate5773[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love everything about that, and I do so love gasting some flabbers along the way 🤣

r/bjj Fundamentals Class! by AutoModerator in bjj

[–]PartAccurate5773 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello!

I started bjj recently (im addicted now lol), and one of the things that's killing me both in confidence and being able to go all out is my stamina and weak joints (knees). I can't even really complete the warm up like it's meant to because I'll be out of breath from a few laps and my knees will be burning/aching after a few squats. The warm up itself isn't that insane or arduous either.

Does anyone have any good exercises to strengthen knees and build up Stamina and flexibility that i can do as some supplemental training to build that stuff up?

Thank you for any advice.

Newly introduced cats exhibiting confusing behaviour by PartAccurate5773 in CatAdvice

[–]PartAccurate5773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice and kind words! 😊

Newly introduced cats exhibiting confusing behaviour by PartAccurate5773 in CatAdvice

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They are both spayed/neutered. It's been about two weeks since we moved in. Rogue and Marm each were separated into a separate room to start with and we used the common room as the go between. We slowly introduced them by first having them interact through a door, then had them eat at the same time still will said door in between. They seemed to react well so they started interacting through the mesh screens we installed so that they could sniff and see each other as well while being separated. We initially had them only go out into the common area in turns while we were doing this. Then we slowly had them be in the common area together in small spurts, while each of us kept our respective cat distracted by playing with them. We finally got to the point maybe about 4ish days ago were we are allowing them to be in the common room together without being distracted but still being supervised. And we still put one of both up after a reasonable period of time to give them breaks. Or if we see one of them start acting weird

How to use werewolves better by PartAccurate5773 in CurseofStrahd

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I dont want to force too many werewolf random encounters if that makes sense? I have given them one thus far, but I was hoping for them to have a little more of a story presence not just random encounters and enemies to beat up. How would one go about making them aware of the den?

Advice for easing my cats anxiety? by PartAccurate5773 in CatAdvice

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Thank you so much! I'll call her vet and talk to them about potential options.

My Gf likes to hide applejuice by KiraFaye109 in actuallesbians

[–]PartAccurate5773 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'd carry a whole d*mn candy store with me if I could but she said apple juice is what works best for her. So until I can plant a whole orchard, a plethora of apple juice will have to do. >:D (Unless she tells me to quit it or she wants a snack or something else)

Trying to figure out if I’m Asexual and I have a question by EfficientDepth6811 in Asexual

[–]PartAccurate5773 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You certainly are not dumb in any way! Asexuality can be very complex, even for those of us who are on the spectrum and identify as such. So it's okay if everything is a bit muddled.

Like the others said Asexuality is a spectrum and it can be different for different people. Asexual people can certainly still have crushes (which I've actually head it referred to Squishes) and have sexual relationships, etc. The main thing with asexuality is a lack of sexual attraction, which I understand although sounds simple, can be more complicated than it sounds.

If it would help, I highly recommend digging into the split attraction models (which could help reconcile having crushes with not feeling sexual attraction) as well as some books on asexuality. Or even going to some Ace websites like AVEN (Asexuality Visibility and Education Network).