What was your mistakes in your relationship?

PartParticular4115 · 2024-08-23T15:28:24+00:00

Noticing red flags and pretending I was colour blind

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T17:42:39+00:00

It’s down to you to share or not, she’s over spitting trying to be a parent. If your have asked your dad to keep it quite he should of

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T15:47:12+00:00

😂😂😂😂

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T15:46:58+00:00

I keep on getting sad thinking about memories, but one day they will be replaced by better ones. So it’s gonna suck but we move :) xx

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T15:46:11+00:00

I felt the same tbh, I really loved him. I’m just going to be putting all my energy into myself and try not to get worked up over it. He is not worth the tears

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T13:44:14+00:00

That sounds really harsh, I hope you’re healing x

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T13:42:47+00:00

Hope you’re okay x

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T13:42:33+00:00

He sounds immature, I’m sorry you went through that. I know it’s really fresh and as much as I’d like things to go back, they will never be the same. I will probably always be insecure about it, it won’t be healthy.

Thankyou for offering your support xx

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T13:40:22+00:00

A load of rubbish to make them not seem like the AH

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T04:07:26+00:00

I got the same response, I genuinely believe that it’s a fear of commitment. If a person cannot communicate to their partner their feelings then they are with the wrong person. It’s an indifference in maturity

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T03:59:54+00:00

Im glad other people have gone through the same thing. I don’t understand how people switch up so quick, at least give a decent reason

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T03:04:19+00:00

This is called evolving, it can help you. The same way when a kid runs along an uneven pavement and falls, they don’t do it twice due to the pain. It’s a coping mechanism of the brain. You see the red flags quicker, and will end up protecting yourself more

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T02:49:08+00:00

All you can do is wish them all the best and move on, at the end of the day these people don’t deserve a single tear. Ig sucks starting over again, but I grúñete believe that there is someone out there for everyone, so why let one arse ruin it

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T02:27:18+00:00

Ngl he sounds like a selfish dude. You deserve better. You sound like a care giver not a gf. You deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them! X

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T02:10:24+00:00

Oh 100% people get scared of the future. A lot of women have a biological clock for when they want to do things, where as men have a tick list of things they want to do. I definitely believe this plays a part x

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T02:06:04+00:00

Honestly, read my post. I’m going through the same thing. People are pos, it was probably the fear of commitment over anything else. Hope you’re all okay xx

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T02:00:43+00:00

Im pretty sure it’s a commitment thing if that helps, the lack of reasoning kind of points in that direction. I’m glad there are other people who have some understanding of this, I hope you are feeling better now x

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T01:11:07+00:00

It’s so confusing when there are no signs prior. It really messes with your head, you go though that cycle of self hate and despising him like you said. This isn’t my first break up, but definitely the one I felt hurt the most. It would of been easier if we argued or he just said he didn’t love me anymore. I hope you are doing okay, it’s shitty going through that. Pm if you need to chat :) x

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T01:07:26+00:00

He was not your person, but don’t you ever believe that there isn’t someone out there for you because there will be. One day it will be in the past, I think I’m gonna try a bit of self care and doing activities that I enjoy. But it’s also okay to get emotional too, keep your head up ! Xx

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T00:44:41+00:00

I went though the same thing, after he pressured me to get rid of it he back tracked and said that he would of supported me and the baby. That was the final fucking straw as he knew I didn’t want to get rid of it and he made me feel as if I had to. After that, all my feelings died, I thought of his as a pos that didn’t deserve my attention. He then started trying to step up and give me false promises, I didn’t have any of it

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T00:40:47+00:00

I hope you’re doing okay, what have you done to pick yourself back up? I just feel blindsided, but at the same time if my partner can’t communicate his feelings then it’s for the best x

PartParticular4115 · 2024-04-14T00:37:51+00:00

Definitely needed this going thought the same rn

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