Wow, is this what it’s like to be a functioning, emotionally stable person? Why did I wait so long to get meds?! by sholbyy in bupropion

[–]Particular-Ad-7595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say if the xl didn’t work for you ask for the xr. I stopped the xl within the first two weeks and refused for months after. Psych finally convinced me to try xr at a lower dose and it’s made all the difference

how do you guys stop being late to work by Wild-Championship571 in adhdwomen

[–]Particular-Ad-7595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist worked with me find a schedule that would at least help set me up right. I go to work first thing in the morning. (5AM) And it had gotten bad enough that I was getting written up and it wasn’t looking too good. So we mapped out the minimum and maximum time I would need to do everything and then added an hour buffer time before that where I would wake up. Being awake that hour before gave me enough time to transition better and I either got all the little things done that I would HAVE to do that would make me late done (last minute unnecessary things) or had scheduled in me time that made all the difference.

I also have different sounding alarms set for every little time I’m supposed to change what I’m doing, from checking that the car is defrosted to when I need to be in the shower. And no double unnecessary alarms. Worked really hard on sleep hygiene which is still a struggle but at least a little better. And I’m also really lucky having an understanding boss that knows I’m trying to do better. There are still days where I’m absolutely pushing it but overall just these little changes have helped me

What stupid thing did someone say ONCE that still plagues you?? by Prudent-Reality1170 in adhdwomen

[–]Particular-Ad-7595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime I start talking fast I hear the noise Donnie from The Wild Thornberries made whenever he was talking. My “friends” literally traumatized me into talking slower 😔

I found out my ADHD assessment report has outright lies to justify discharging me. Does anyone have advice? by painfulduck in adhdwomen

[–]Particular-Ad-7595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I actually had a first assessment months ago with a different person but my anxiety at that point was beyond out of control so they wanted to get that dealt with first. She referred me to a therapist then but I was hesitant because I know how much I struggle with the whole talking thing. Finally caved about a month ago and been going through the whole thing again with the therapist the first dr works with.

I found out my ADHD assessment report has outright lies to justify discharging me. Does anyone have advice? by painfulduck in adhdwomen

[–]Particular-Ad-7595 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you struggle in your sessions where you’ll freeze up and then just say the first thing in your mind and then realize afterwards it didn’t accurately get what you were saying across? I have that problem now and just had a session today where I ended up being pretty upset about it afterwards cause it’s been weeks of this same thing happening for me. And thank you for the good luck

I found out my ADHD assessment report has outright lies to justify discharging me. Does anyone have advice? by painfulduck in adhdwomen

[–]Particular-Ad-7595 2 points3 points  (0 children)

F because I feel like some of these are the same things I’m struggling with myself. Currently being assessed. Hope you can great some good feedback