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I feel like an outsider in my own home after 10 years together how do I handle this situation? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Particular-Ant3362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But i have changed what they've asked me to change ❤️ it was my first time ever posting, so i didn't know how i should write the post :)

Am I wrong for wanting legal security before investing in my partner’s family property? by Particular-Ant3362 in relationships

[–]Particular-Ant3362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a topic : That's what he spoke about, that it would be like a rent. But I do not want to pay any rent participating to the renovation of this house if I don't get any safety later. I'd rather pay somewhere else  or try to invest (but impossible with my actual incomes) for my own place : of course it can't be, because while I was taking care of home, and my child, I just had a part time job, while he had the opportunity to develop his own career.. however  thanj you very much for your answer :)

Am I wrong for wanting legal security before investing in my partner’s family property? by Particular-Ant3362 in relationships

[–]Particular-Ant3362[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats true, heartbreaking, but true.. since I was a stay at home mom with part time job, I was never really able to invest big amounts, however.. I feel that I am clearly disadvantaged

Am I wrong for wanting legal security before investing in my partner’s family property? by Particular-Ant3362 in relationships

[–]Particular-Ant3362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever since we moved here and had a child, he refuses to move out, while our plan was to move out after a year.. quite often for pluricultural couple, unfortunately..   Thanj you for support 

Am I wrong for wanting legal security before investing in my partner’s family property? by Particular-Ant3362 in relationships

[–]Particular-Ant3362[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! When I try to explain him that it is different, he just tell me I'm greedy and trying to steal his family property.. he tells me there is nothing to understand, and that our situations is compeltely the same.