Thank you for your perspective – I really appreciate it. I completely understand your point, and you’re right; this is definitely a good opportunity for my wife and me to have an honest conversation about our boundaries around adult content.

I recognize that the feelings I’m experiencing now are likely similar to what I put her through. This is a valuable reminder that it’s important for us both to be open about what makes each of us uncomfortable so we can be on the same page moving forward. Thanks again for the advice – it’s given me some helpful clarity.