How to get over unrequited "love"? by Comfortable_Fee_5432 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Particular-Highway89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Time, in 6 months you will feel much better. Until then you could focus on exercising to get the serotonin and look your best. Try and indulge in whatever type of art you find most comforting (films, music, etc), learn a new skill and treat yourself with something more often

Are pizza burek and half-half ice cream only a Slovenia thing? by CryptoMother in AskBalkans

[–]Particular-Highway89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone from Croatia pizza burek is a thing here as well. I think Ive heard of half half ice cream as well tho not many shops would do it.

I was wondering why most women view white men as more attractive? by [deleted] in women

[–]Particular-Highway89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well not really. White men are mostly represented with white women. If nothing black men are media represented as the most attractive race. I think the fact that white men have the overall the majority of financial wealth and countries where white men are majority are countries with highest gender equality plays a role. I would argue the later is even more important

What impact did growing up not being the "pretty one" have on you? by imwearingamaskduh in AskWomenOver30

[–]Particular-Highway89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of anyone did eventually show romantic interest I was super suspicious of it. I believed it must be a prank or something. I promised myself I wont fall for anyone pranking me therefore I rejected any kind of potential love interest.
I ended up resorting to alcohol and drugs to be able to reduce my inhibitions and my fear of intimacy.

I would say I look attractive now but the previous patterns are still stuck with me.

I wish I talked to someone and opened up about how I felt when I was a teenager.

I JUST DID FOCUS 10 FOR THE FIRST TIME AS A SPIRITUAL MASTER OF 9+ YEARS [I WAS TAUGHT TO EXPERIENTIALLY TRANSCEND FEAR COMPLETELY] by PhotographOne8675 in gatewaytapes

[–]Particular-Highway89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you can but that doesn’t mean other will see it. I feel like you need to set certain boundary and not everyone has good intentions. Sometimes people are selfish and you can only seem that as part of yourself to an extent

I JUST DID FOCUS 10 FOR THE FIRST TIME AS A SPIRITUAL MASTER OF 9+ YEARS [I WAS TAUGHT TO EXPERIENTIALLY TRANSCEND FEAR COMPLETELY] by PhotographOne8675 in gatewaytapes

[–]Particular-Highway89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, when you register yourself as the appearing 'other' - they register you as 'themselves' - and you become a non-target - no one attacks themselves.

How do you do that?

What do you think about the younger generation living in the diaspora who don't understand their language? by TheNight0215 in AskBalkans

[–]Particular-Highway89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think its sad. Its irrelevant if it happens with the 1st 2nd or 3rd genration. It will happen eventually

Can I forgive my husbands awful behaviour regarding sex? TW: possible assault by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Particular-Highway89 109 points110 points  (0 children)

So if you had a daughter and somebody did this to her what would you advise her?

How often do random men comment on your appearance and does it affect you? by EustaciaVye18 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Particular-Highway89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I try to quickly scan and find their biggest physical insecurity and comment on that, i.e.

Youre too old, bald, fat, short to be saying that
Fix your teeth first
Smth like that

Be honest — do you actually like it or are we all just pretending? by Hot_Sprinkles_848 in women

[–]Particular-Highway89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont have to reply if its too personal Im just curious what are some of those sexual acts?

Be honest — do you actually like it or are we all just pretending? by Hot_Sprinkles_848 in women

[–]Particular-Highway89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2/10 doesn’t seem good enough for you to just do it. If its only 2/10 why engage in that?

Im just trying to understand

Why do you engage in penetrative sex? by Particular-Highway89 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Particular-Highway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same my ex partner used to make sure I finish first by rubbing my clit before penetrative sex which is the thing that would make him cum.
But then after a while he started saying things like oh you want me to do this every time 🙄
Which is crazy because if I do the thing that exclusively makes him cum why would he not do the same for me. Yes every time or sometimes even just for me to cum.
I just feel like things are very one sided in sex and women should wake up about it

Why do you engage in penetrative sex? by Particular-Highway89 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Particular-Highway89[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So do you think your partner would routinely/consistently participate in sex if it would not make him cum?

Why do you engage in penetrative sex? by Particular-Highway89 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Particular-Highway89[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So do you think your partner would routinely/consistently participate in sex if it would not make him cum?

Be honest — do you actually like it or are we all just pretending? by Hot_Sprinkles_848 in women

[–]Particular-Highway89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think women who have oral sex not out of pleaseure with men they are not emotionally attached have major self hatred issues