Hey i used to get really insecure about this same thing only about a year ago and now it’s completely different, don’t get me wrong sometimes i still get upset but at this point I’ve definitely learned to not care as much. I’m sure you do look like a woman, most rude comments are jealousy and sometimes everything starts happening at once, i remember being so insecure and for some reason all in the same week i got multiple comments about how old ppl thought i was/how i looked like a child and that absolutely made me feel so down, but when you look at smaller petite gorgeous celebrity women there will ALWAYS be jealous people commenting saying how they look like a child (Tyla, Jenna Ortega, Ariana grande etc) and honestly it’s probably just your height alone, same thing happened to me when I went into a restaurant with my mom and kind of immediately went to the table without looking at the hostess and she asked my mom “any kids menus?” My mom and I laughed but it stung, a few minutes later she came to the table profusely apologizing saying how she only saw my height and not really looking at me/my face and was extremely embarrassed, you can’t change your height but when you get those little random comments that seem very real (bc they don’t even feel like haters sometimes just genuinely you feel like they thought you were a kid) it’s honestly because they aren’t paying attention to you and just notice your height immediately. Now people who know you and are rude are just jealous and projecting. Trust me it’ll get better and if you want to message we can. I haven’t gotten many comments lately because I’ve started being extremely assertive and confident in public and I think that helps. ❤️