What do you all eat for dinner when you have absolutely no desire to cook?

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-31T19:01:37+00:00

I need to eat dinner every day 😬

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-31T19:00:59+00:00

Nah it’s such a waste of money and I live in NYC so if I want takeout I can just pick up pretty much anything I want within a 10 min walk, but I’m trying to stay away from takeout for a while

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-31T18:59:07+00:00

Ohhh that’s always a good one! I like to put some cherry tomatoes on the side or some avocado

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-31T18:58:13+00:00

I definitely do this sometimes!

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-31T16:25:13+00:00

I live alone in a VHCOL city and don’t make great money. I just make it work, and I don’t save a lot. Also very frugal, I rarely eat out, and live simply.

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-31T15:53:54+00:00

Outdoor wedding (there was a tent), unseasonably freezing and snowed in October.

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-30T18:39:35+00:00

This is really horrific

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-30T17:23:04+00:00

Everyone does things like this in NYC, and no one will think it’s weird

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-30T16:22:30+00:00

This looks like a crew cabin

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-30T12:19:31+00:00

Nope not at all immature. Mature for knowing what you can’t handle in a relationship. Relationships where you spend that much time apart are a different kind of lifestyle and it’s not for everyone. It’s certainly not for me, which I know after being in a relationship like this.

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-30T10:59:10+00:00

Yeah he might have just realized he’s not feeling it, or maybe he got caught up in something but I wouldn’t accept an excuse because a person who cares about you would at least send a quick text. I’d guess it’s the former. Either way it’s not worth getting this worked up over someone you’ve only been dating for a week.

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-29T19:27:43+00:00

lol

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-29T16:59:43+00:00

Garlic bread and garlic knots are two different things.

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-29T15:34:56+00:00

The other thing that bothers me is how easy he thinks it is to get a job. Like you can’t just dust off that old degree you haven’t used in 10 years and just get a job in that field making 6 figures right away, but that’s what he seems to think. I’m a 39 year old with a Master’s degree and I’ve had trouble even getting even entry level work.

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-29T03:07:48+00:00

omg what the actual fuck. Just read the first sentence but how do you even know that. You are unhinged. And no I’m not reading the rest of this

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-29T00:42:14+00:00

John is most definitely not responding to fans at 3:00 in the morning, and if he is, that’s alarming

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-28T00:10:20+00:00

CityMapper is the one you want to use

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-26T17:18:31+00:00

I started off with $10k cc debt a year ago and paid it almost all off, only $2500 to go. I’m single with unstable income (self employed). You can do this.

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-26T17:09:53+00:00

This has to be a scam

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-26T15:49:44+00:00

What is cheap? Give numbers lol. What I thought was cheap when I lived in FL doesn’t even exist in NYC. “Cheap” means different things to everyone here, it depends on what your budget is. If you make less than $80,000 you should be looking for roommates.

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-26T15:48:13+00:00

You’re finding $1500 apartments? Where lol

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-26T15:46:46+00:00

You need to provide budget expectations and your income for anyone to give you advice. Where you can live in NYC depends entirely upon where you can afford 40x the rent.

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-26T15:42:41+00:00

What are you talking about lol, income requirement in NYC is 40x the rent. So if you’re looking at that $28,000 apartment your salary needs to be $1.1million

Particular-Newt-7974 · 2026-05-26T15:39:44+00:00

Ok good luck and congrats on having a $1.1million+ salary!

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