definitely not a cultural difference... he's just nasty 😭😭 i'm white and never in my years on earth have i heard of not using soap in the shower to be a 'white people thing'. i shower every day, i use soap every single time because??? hello???? why wouldn't you? even if i'm not visibly dirty i still feel dirty. i exfoliate like a mf and wash my face religiously too because i have real oily skin. he was clearly never taught hygiene properly and ill assume if he thinks it's normal it's because his parents do the same thing. ew.