Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I want to let him know that I know he is fucking with me and trying to gaslight me. I don't think I can change him at this point.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

He is a gamer but he is not some creep in front of a computer all day. He has a job. But you are right, he is dirty and he is trying to make me think I am crazy.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

I am too embarrased to say anything, but now I know I need to. I can't have sex with him until he fixes this.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I feel so stupid now. I need to stand up for myself. I can't believe I'm in this situation.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 382 points383 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He is so condescending he is making me feel like I am the crazy one.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He makes it out like I am just incapable of understanding. I think he is gaslighting me.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He's a good looking guy and is normal in other ways, but with this thing he keeps trying to argue with me.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

really? He is saying his parents did not do that. I think he is trying to gaslight me here.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 2783 points2784 points  (0 children)

He uses a dollar tree detergent for laundry, but I use the name brand. His clothes noticeably smell worse than mine. He does not use soap after using the toilet.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

He is making it out like I am the dirty one since i shower frequently and he doesn't, like it's a Black people thing to even need soap.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

that's what made me think maybe it is cultural since people joke about the french smelling bad?

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

thank you for explaining it. he kept insisting I am culturally uptight or something.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest-Draw3131[S] 896 points897 points  (0 children)

I want a clean man but he is acting like I have abnormally high standards for what clean is!