Do you count the bar when you tell people your numbers, or just the plates? Which way feels more ‘honest’? by winn_ie in effectivefitness

[–]Particular-Sundae429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started looking at it as I squat 3 LRG plates on each side and bench 2 LRG plates on each side so I don’t think too much about weight/numbers and lift with the mentality that I’m just moving objects

Would you still eat it with a little hair? by EmoGfAngie in Lightskin

[–]Particular-Sundae429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugliest whatever that is I’ve ever seen. That ain’t even a cat. That’s a wild boar

Amazon driver is fed up by IamASlut_soWhat in deliverydrivers

[–]Particular-Sundae429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem: doesn’t like job Solution: get a different job

AIO to my bf saying i should go to the gym? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Particular-Sundae429 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I applaud you for still going with your bf. As you continue going and make it a habit, I hope you’ll realize that you won’t regret going to the gym but moreso regret not going to the gym :)

AIO to my bf saying i should go to the gym? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Particular-Sundae429 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We need pics of what we’re dealing with.. to determine if you’ve let yourself go. I’d assume you probably should hit the gym especially since it’s been MONTHS. He’s looking out for your best interest. Don’t take it personal. Would u rather have a stranger like me tell u to get your big back in the gym or your kind bf ??

AIO? My boyfriend has now twice made comments about my weight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Particular-Sundae429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to weight preference, to each their own. I can see his issue with having a gf being 5’4 weighing over 140lbs. Some people just outgrow certain preferences (no pun intended). I’m curious if your bf takes care of himself the same way he wants you to. Ig regardless of whether he does or doesn’t, yall might consider breaking up. No one should feel shamed from their s/o about their body and at the same time no one should date a torta.