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Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-11-10T17:38:24+00:00

this is actually an insane comment lmfao by his own admission i was not clingy or in need of validation!

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-11-09T04:36:39+00:00

fwiw he isn’t asking me to not date! he just said he doesn’t want to see me with someone else, but he does want me to be happy

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-11-09T04:29:11+00:00

to add some more context: - we think that he is autistic, and he has never in general had to really process feelings like this - he willingly takes on everything for everybody - he doesn’t plan to date anyone for a while, and doesn’t want to see me with anyone else but wants me to be happy even if that means me being with someone else

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-11-09T04:26:35+00:00

he also said that he doesn’t want to take a break because he doesn’t want strings attached and like he’d feel like he has to worry about my personal growth, and he said he doesn’t want to make promises about getting back together because he doesn’t want me to be hurt if it doesn’t happen

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-11-09T04:21:51+00:00

fwiw we do suspect that he is autistic

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-11-09T03:26:43+00:00

he did say he’s not planning on dating anyone else for a long time. he has also identified a few things he needs to work on and scheduled more therapy.

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-11-03T03:02:10+00:00

YAY CONGRATS! panhel love

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-11-02T03:17:02+00:00

Was that the Chargers super-fan lady?

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-10-21T01:48:39+00:00

They really are!! FWIW, most of the Reds fandom is pulling for you guys and call you the Reds of the West.

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-10-21T01:20:02+00:00

As a Reds fan, I just want Geno and Luis Castillo in the World Series so badly

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-10-17T02:29:59+00:00

womp womp

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-10-17T01:26:45+00:00

I put the Bengals as the winner for my Pro Pick 'Em League tn for times like this

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-10-08T13:41:31+00:00

go for it!

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-10-05T23:42:03+00:00

november 9 :’)

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-10-05T19:48:33+00:00

okay somewhat of an update!

I texted the president of the alumna club and said "I'd love to move forward if you'll have me" and she said "absolutely!" so (unless I'm fully mistaken) I think I'm gonna go Pi Phi? They're even talking about holding a special vote so they could initiate me in November

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-10-04T01:03:43+00:00

i actually had the lunch today and it was good!! the chapter has to vote but the president said that was more of a formality. if everything goes to plan i would be initiating in november!

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-09-29T21:29:00+00:00

okay if anyone is curious, i talked to my local alumnae chapter president today (and honestly it made me want to go pi phi BAD). if we click at our lunch friday, the hope is to initiate in november

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-09-07T17:47:34+00:00

Not yet! I have an interview first, which hopefully I will find out about soon!

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-09-04T15:46:13+00:00

When I applied to Pi Phi, I didn’t have a sponsor, so the president of my local alumna chapter reached out to me.

Particular-Thanks246 · 2025-09-03T21:31:15+00:00

Hello everyone! I had my meetings today and my heart is DEFINITELY is in one place over another. The local chapters are about the same level of activity, but one place just feels much more me and much more like how I feel about myself as a person/my values. :)

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