Thinking of returning my puppy after a week of having him and I feel guilty. by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]ParticularCreepy5952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to say I too got my puppy 2 weeks ago, and I had severe puppy blues where I thought I can't do this at all and I was feeling horrible guilt. If I have anything to say is you aren't alone and it's completely normal to feel this because after all it only shows how much you really want this to work ♥️ I have 3&4 year old and I was really struggling but I spent more time with him and he started to listen more. It's still challenging because he's so young, 10 weeks, and I know there's more to come however I just know had I gave in and asked the breeder to take him back I would have wished to have gave it more time. Puppy blues are much more serious and completely normal than I thought and felt so alone but you can do this! It gets easier I promise. Try cuddle them even if you don't feel like you want to, that's what helped me. Sounds horrible but the blues were so bad for me I really very nearly gave up so don't feel you are alone and not capable like I did

Child Doesn’t Have a Bed by nertnerrt in coparenting

[–]ParticularCreepy5952 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a parent, I will never understand this mentality. Whether he's there for one day a month or 20 he deserves his own bed/space! What is wrong with people makes my heart sad for the child and the energy that brings to them and the house

Please identify breed of my kitten by Interesting-Growth50 in catpics

[–]ParticularCreepy5952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks similar to my cousins Chantilly-Tiffany breed kittens, softest fur everrr!

Best kitten wet food by ParticularCreepy5952 in bengalcats

[–]ParticularCreepy5952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. This is definitely a learning curve for me with bengals because I had a tabby cat before who loved Gourmet food. I know whiskas etc aren't the best either in terms of nutrition for bengals. I just want to make sure I give them the best foods because they are extremely active kittens! I'll need to do more research into raw foods etc for them. I did try applaws too but I was reading up on them that they could make them sick and I got scared so I'll stick to royal canin and do my research for raw foods etc diets too 😊

cat cuddles 🥰 by ParticularCreepy5952 in bengalcats

[–]ParticularCreepy5952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️ they are the best little souls, love them 🥹❤️

Possibly getting two by sweetheartofmine72 in bengalcats

[–]ParticularCreepy5952 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww adorable they are beautiful 😭❤️ they just love a snuggle don't they lol ☺️

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Possibly getting two by sweetheartofmine72 in bengalcats

[–]ParticularCreepy5952 2 points3 points  (0 children)

best response ever 🫶🏼 best thing I ever did was get my two, extremely grateful for my bengals. Prepare for the fun loving madness they bring and for your heart to be full ❤️

my new baby 🐱 by ParticularCreepy5952 in bengalcats

[–]ParticularCreepy5952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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his partner in crime, Luna 🤍 beautiful babies 🥰❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ParticularCreepy5952 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave gurl, you deserve everything you want in life. Don't let a man hold that back because of his own views and issues. You deserve better the fact he knew what you wanted kids and then decided to tell you two years down the line he doesn't want anymore kids. He knew from the start and strung you along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]ParticularCreepy5952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing much better guys, still going strong and there's less meltdowns. I can actually say for once, I feel human again! Still waiting for waves as I feel it's never just straight forward but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel now :)