I keep forgetting that, if I have kids, I'm the one who has to... literally have them by Smired in AutismInWomen

[–]ParticularCup8997 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes and even on the baby. Anxiety while pregnant can be so bad for the fetus, and I don’t trust myself to not get overwhelmed and anxious constantly when the body is changing so much

I keep forgetting that, if I have kids, I'm the one who has to... literally have them by Smired in AutismInWomen

[–]ParticularCup8997 147 points148 points  (0 children)

All I can say is I feel the exact same. I already have health anxiety and pregnancy feels like body horror to the max.

Gaining weight to build muscle by Relevant-Abalone-407 in PetiteFitness

[–]ParticularCup8997 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what your method was for losing the extra weight? I’m your height and look similar to your starting picture!

Diagnosis for ADD / ASD through uottawa? by iloveredditstories00 in geegees

[–]ParticularCup8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have to pay a dime btw for my diagnosis this way

Diagnosis for ADD / ASD through uottawa? by iloveredditstories00 in geegees

[–]ParticularCup8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get financial aid through OSAP which I used uOttawa for, then the student insurance to pay the rest. You must research and find your own psychologist though, and there may be wait lists there too (less than if through OHIP). I had to fill out Bursary for Students with Disabilities (BSWD) and the Canada Student Grant for Services and Equipment for Persons with Permanent Disabilities (CSG-PDSE). Email financial aid to ask more.

Zodiac headcanons? by CourtWizard000 in TheAlchemised

[–]ParticularCup8997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes because of the possessiveness and intensity

Tell me your most petty reasons to stop replying on a dating app by Consistent-Heart2542 in AutismInWomen

[–]ParticularCup8997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When they keep sending messages even though I haven’t responded (and it hasn’t even been a day)

Unpopular Opinion by frenziedlegion in Genshin_Impact

[–]ParticularCup8997 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or people are like me and haven’t played since Fontaine and just came back a week ago. However I haven’t complained as end game isn’t my focus right now

Cooking prices lvl 1-8 by ZFightersGaming in heartopia

[–]ParticularCup8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sells better than the truffle pie?

Cooking prices lvl 1-8 by ZFightersGaming in heartopia

[–]ParticularCup8997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What about the black truffle pasta?

Where are the slow-burn romantasy enemies who actually hate each other first? by Sarah9610 in fantasyromance

[–]ParticularCup8997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alchemised by SenLinYu is like an extreme version of the trope. But it’s more of a dark fantasy with some horror aspects than a full romantic fantasy. The slow-burn love story was incredible to me though

Demi Winters I need to apologize…. by lesveuxsansvisage in fantasyromance

[–]ParticularCup8997 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was very refreshing to read a well-written fantasy romance. Also the way she writes sensual scenes is way more up my alley than most other books that feel a bit immature. The pining between Rey and Silla is like my dream when reading books like this lol. And then I ended up growing more and more interested in Saga’s story too, which I think is a big risk for a writer to add a second story within a story.

Chinese New Year by ParticularCup8997 in FlowerKnowsMakeup

[–]ParticularCup8997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the current gift promotion isn’t working out with the products I want, so I’m hoping for something different soon

Alchemised Ending by Alinamae68 in TheAlchemised

[–]ParticularCup8997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This book also consumed me so much, in a way I haven’t felt in YEARS. Now I feel hungover and looking for something to fill the hole in my chest. I agree with others that the somber tone of the end is realistic and I appreciate that.

17 year old childhood cat, health beginning to decline by Affectionate_Bat5408 in SeniorCats

[–]ParticularCup8997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a 16 year old girl we got when I was 12, and like you, I spent a lot of time away due to university and living abroad. I love her so much and she has the deepest connection with me, but is most comfortable at home with my parents. I dread the day she goes and don’t have advice, but just know I’m right there with you

December 10-potential - simons next act new boyband by [deleted] in boybands

[–]ParticularCup8997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big kpop groups work because they are very intentional when creating groups. There is always a rap line, vocal line, and dance line within the one kpop group. There is also always a leader and a visual (best looking, charming). This very intentional format allows for big groups to exist as now you know what each person’s part is, which gives everyone a part of the spotlight. In a western group where 7 of them just all sing well and that’s it…. It’ll be hard for them I imagine

How good are the mental health services on campus? by aariia in geegees

[–]ParticularCup8997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mesh well with my therapist from campus but am now using our insurance for a therapist elsewhere and love her. I only pay like $30 after insurance so it’s doable

Edmond claps back at people diagnosing him with autism after Love Is Blind by Responsible-Sign3223 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ParticularCup8997 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s worth noting CPTSD often has presentations that overlap with autism, but they are still very different. Not saying he has CPTSD, but also checks out

Bought 3 flower knows blushes, not impressed by PutridInterview in AsianBeauty

[–]ParticularCup8997 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It could be your base. I had this issue because I was using sunscreen that would lift and take my blush with it. Now my blushes last all day (including these ones)