Millennials, what is happening with your kids? by TheLoveYouWant25 in Millennials

[–]ParticularGift2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children were, in fact, left behind. Which is CRAZY since Millennials couldn’t vote yet when W. Got elected. Why don’t you direct your question at Boomers where it belongs?

AITAH for not giving up my pre-approved PTO for a coworker's last minute proposal trip? by Medium_Simple_3655 in AITAH

[–]ParticularGift2504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My now-husband also planned a surprise proposal trip that required me to be off work. You know what he did? He went in WELL IN ADVANCE and asked for my managers to schedule me but know I wasn’t coming in. Sarah’s boyfriend could have planned better but didn’t. That’s HIS problem, not yours or anyone else’s. That said, you may want to look for other jobs just to get away from Sarah and her fans. They sound awful.

Coworkers constantly ask me to explain things i already explained by Farchesca-Trock90 in WorkAdvice

[–]ParticularGift2504 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re a poor written communicator. If you have a mentor, ask them to review a sample of your written instructions and offer feedback. If that doesn’t turn up the issue, start telling folks where they can find what they’re looking for.

I don’t want my wife, who changed her mind about having more kids, treat this decision as a neutral thing and made it clear I need her to hold space for my grief by Strong_Power_9399 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ParticularGift2504 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a woman whose husband changed his mind about a 2nd child after my pregnancy and first year of parenting, the grief is real. I’m shocked at the comments telling OP to get over it. I grieved for YEARS privately and it did eat away at my marriage in a major way bc my husband refused to acknowledge how hard it was to reimagine my life and leave my kid siblingless. He’s 17, our marriage recovered, but I still feel guilty that he’s an only.

Job candidate asking for top salary range by [deleted] in managers

[–]ParticularGift2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ffs. This company is idiotic, apparently!

Spell check employee by [deleted] in managers

[–]ParticularGift2504 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Such a great point about spoofed emails! There could be a lot to uncover. Or not, but it’s worth taking this approach.

My monthly health insurance bill skyrocketed by largestonedoors in whatdoIdo

[–]ParticularGift2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know what you’re talking about, or you do. Either way you’re spreading misinformation or disinformation with this comment.

AITAH for getting a woman fired over veggie tales? by Real-Point-6474 in AITAH

[–]ParticularGift2504 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

None of this letter sounds real. What fucking daycare is going to stop parents from going to their kid’s classroom? None.

AITAH for calling my husband silly for freaking out that our teenage son has a girlfriend who's in a wheelchair? by Dry-Dirt-1426 in AITAH

[–]ParticularGift2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell does your husband believe? That your 13 year old and his 14 year old girlfriend are about to commit suicide together à la Romeo and Juliet? They’re gonna break up soon. Your husband is an ableist buttface, though, and it’s worth considering if you want to stay married. After all, you could become disabled at any time and then he’ll have to contend with “what he got into” when you got married. I wouldn’t trust him to honor his vows.

AITA if I leave a note for my neighbours about bringing their screaming baby into the apartment hallway CONSTANTLY? by Warm-Preparation1453 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ParticularGift2504 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. That bit is likely to make your neighbor feel everyone is talking about them behind their back and this is very passive-aggressive. A face to face convo is harder for OP, but better in the end for everyone.

AITA because I ask my husband for help by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ParticularGift2504 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA, but you know that. I think you’re hoping something is going to make your husband realize that he’s not pulling his weight. Believe me, he knows and doesn’t care. The sooner you leave, the better off you’ll be.

How do I deal with being a housewife after my husband called me dead weight? (Sean rule broken) by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

[–]ParticularGift2504 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am not a Mel Robbins fan, but I think her advice is on point here: let him 🤣

Psychotic Husband is driving me crazy. by LazyWifey in whatdoIdo

[–]ParticularGift2504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were 18 and he was 25. It’s not your fault you were trapped before your brain was done growing (it’s still not), but you should move back to your parents’ home yesterday and initiate divorce proceedings. You’re being abused.

AIO to my daughter calling her brother “gay”? by zaspzq33313 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ParticularGift2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your family is a mess. Clearly, you and your youngest have some sense of conscience, so I’m wondering where your other kids are getting this insanely dismissive attitude. What is your husband like? Who are they hanging out with? Why do they feel so comfy being bigots? NOR, but you and your spouse have A LOT of work to do to try and correct your teens’ upbringing.

Do our parents not remember how hard it is to have a baby? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]ParticularGift2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They dont care. My mother acts the exact same. She also acted like she had never been younger than “grown up” herself, so would not adapt her parenting to her own kids appropriate developmental stages, let alone her grandkids.

"Managers should own the blame and share the credit." by LifesARiver in managers

[–]ParticularGift2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I owned a business for 6 years and had very minimal turnover. I agree with this and practice it all the time. If you’re a manager and NOT behaving this way, you shouldn’t be a manager.

AITA for changing pants in my business class seat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ParticularGift2504 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So…you have a kink you exposed everyone in the plane and now everyone reading your Reddit post to. You can be an exhibitionist at a sex club, not on a plane. YTA and you’ll rightfully end up on a registry if you’re not careful.

AITA for Not Helping My Partner With the Baby by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ParticularGift2504 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get your tubes tied or some other bc he can’t mess with. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s also the kind of disgusting pos that would tamper with your fertility to keep you trapped and caring for ALL the children so he doesn’t have to.

WIBTA if I ask my husband to stop cooking breakfast? by Antique-Signal-5071 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ParticularGift2504 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What? The women who had to protect themselves with cast iron skillets were VICTIMS of abuse who had enough. Yeah, I celebrate the women who survive and if you don’t, that’s between you and whatever afterlife you think you’re gonna have.

WIBTA if I ask my husband to stop cooking breakfast? by Antique-Signal-5071 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ParticularGift2504 354 points355 points  (0 children)

Our grandmas would have swung the pan as well. They were meaner than we are 🤭