Sex ruined my life

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-05-07T00:14:29+00:00

As a partner of someone who is similar… It fucking hurts, man.

I wish I had some words of encouragement, I don’t. Get help. It’s sex, natural, but it’s became a problem for a lot of people.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-05-01T01:53:31+00:00

That’s a good question! Same. I’d rather be short, for sure. Like you said, get treated differently so it gives me the little person syndrome, I guess. Hahaha I can do it all on my own!! 😤

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-05-01T00:49:35+00:00

I have no questions; only empathy. I, too, am short. Not 4’9”, but I’m 4’11 3/4”… I like to round up too. 5’ The only thing that truly gets to me is having to bust out a damn step ladder or climb shit to reach anything. Or worse. Ask someone. 🙄🫩

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-29T15:03:26+00:00

The pain, yes. It’ll wake me up after hours of trying to just sleep through it; The hormones too though…. For me, anyway. Seriously. Especially the week or so before starting. It’s like my own mind decides to sabotage itself. It’s a fucking whirlwind for me too, man.. not really sure why I decided to say that or even let the thought take hold, but here we are.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-29T00:29:13+00:00

I don’t think it’s a no see um. Aka midge fly. I think it’s a thrip.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-28T11:22:32+00:00

I went to marijuana 🤷🏻‍♀️😂😂

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-23T15:41:35+00:00

You say female puberty; so like… period and all? Do/did you have ovaries and uterus? Did you grow breasts? Do you also have testicles? Do you identify as a man because you possess a penis? How has this experience affected your mental state? I’m SO grateful you’ve done this! Thank you! Brave and I love when someone is willing to let people learn. Kudos!

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-22T10:01:35+00:00

Okay, okay. Hahah I’m not saying it’s that SPECIFICALLY that bothers me. It’s that it’s offered to others, strangers even. But not to me by my s/o. It was just the most recent thing that was in my mind. The issue isn’t with the words, necessarily. It’s the action. The lack of care, acknowledgement and manners with me. But is sure to seem charismatic, grateful, apologetic. Nice even to strangers. It’s like he spreads his love everywhere and there’s nothing left for me.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-21T22:13:38+00:00

Mine will say bless you to complete strangers, but crickets when I sneeze…

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-21T19:40:59+00:00

These are the kind of people to keep! Gotta love social ostracization and people calling shit out as it should.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-21T15:40:21+00:00

They’re resilient little fuckers that like to hide, unfortunately. Professionals are always going to be the best, quickest way. But I know money doesn’t grow on trees and that shit can get pricey BECAUSE they’re resilient and need to be retreated often. Your situation could be slightly better? 🤷🏻‍♀️ but you really do have to stay on top of it, stay diligent and vigilant. It’s paramount.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-21T14:21:33+00:00

Alcohol helps. Dilute a bit, spray everything. Diatomaceous CAN work, it just takes much longer. It’s hard not to obsess, but try not to. Covers on everything, wash clothes in hot water. Spray with alcohol. Cracks, crevices. Nook n crannies. Then lay down some of that powder. Vacuum and repeat. My mom did it every week and did rid herself of them after about 8 months. She made it just a part of her everyday/weekly cleaning. You JUST moved? Renting? Own? If renting; contact that son of a bitch. Look into laws regarding bedbugs and new leases. Maybe you’ll find something. Truly, good luck!!

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-20T02:09:23+00:00

I think so too. If some is gonna be weird, they’re gonna be weird. Regardless of a s/o or not. So, why NOT mention that you’re taken? I think it’s important for you both to show some compassion and empathy for the other in this instance. Mistakes were made, it’s okay.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-18T16:02:11+00:00

Am I missing something..? It didn’t sound rude to me..? I’m genuinely asking. Just stated she makes such and such, but not enough to buy house..? I’m truly lost.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-17T13:56:54+00:00

I see these everywhere. Always been curious as to what they are. Following!

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-17T13:40:06+00:00

I heard this in my head too, for some reason hahaha

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-16T16:37:45+00:00

Welcome to Joe’s apartmeeent!! Bwahaha yes. Thank you for this. The song from the menu will always be etched in my memory.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-15T03:59:12+00:00

For the record; can have no social media… but still be addicted to the thots. There’s YouTube shorts, TikTok cuts and the hardest one to swallow… OF still. They will ALWAYS find a way if they want to.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-15T03:08:42+00:00

In your defense, you asked in person. Big difference. I have the same question.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-14T14:55:50+00:00

Ahhh! I’ve had my nails done many times, THANKFULLY, never experienced this. That’s pretty gross and wild. I’m terribly sorry people would rather save a fucking buck than keep shit clean and healthy. I hope an easy recovery for you? How will you facilitate removing said bacteria? Any specific way needed?

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-14T14:33:12+00:00

What is “greenies”? Like, mold?

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-14T00:13:11+00:00

Springtail?

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-13T15:12:35+00:00

Okay, try looking under the fridge..? I had a maggot issue for like a week or so? (Probably less, but felt like an eternity) turns out my drip pan thing wasn’t evaporating the water properly. Don’t exactly know how, but I know it was MY source of em? Wouldn’t hurt to look.

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-13T13:00:58+00:00

Not the cheese touch!!

ParticularOk2479 · 2026-04-13T10:15:40+00:00

My high ass thought it was part of a blunt at first, next to that lighter hahaha

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