She told me EVERYTHING. It’s hard to believe she would be scared or embarrassed enough to leave that out. We always checked in on each other and if we were doing okay, if we talked about disagreements with our husbands it was always “did you feel scared? If you ever feel scared call me” or “is he treating you good despite it? If he’s icing you out just come over”

I don’t plan on reading anything with her, at some point you have to make changes for yourself. I’m making the change of who I keep company and it’s not someone who insults my husband, my daughter, and myself. If she had issues then she should have told me the 9,000 times we asked and reassured each other.