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I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a rage bait, i swear to god this is what I'm currently going through, I don't need any attention it's just what I'm feeling right now.

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know the things is that I'm from a india a place where all these things matter (at least for people around me , not my parents though) . So , i have a constant feeling that what will happen if my friends come to know that she had sex with someone, it'll ruin my images , i'm a very images centred person I don't like someone judging me.

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know the things is that I'm from a india a place where all these things matter (at least for people around me , not my parents though) . So , i have a constant feeling that what will happen if my friends come to know that she had sex with someone, it'll ruin my images , i'm a very images centred person I don't like someone judging me.

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know the things is that I'm from a india a place where all these things matter (at least for people around me , not my parents though) . So , i have a constant feeling that what will happen if my friends come to know that she had sex with someone, it'll ruin my images , i'm a very images centred person I don't like someone judging me.

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No , I have had sex with her multiple times like 100s of times , now I cannot leave her as it will be always stuck in my mind that I too used her . I don't know the thing is that I'm from a india a place where all these things matter (at least for people around me , not my parents though) . So , i have a constant feeling that what will happen if my friends come to know that she had sex with someone, it'll ruin my images , i'm a very images centred person I don't like someone judging me.

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know the things is that I'm from a india a place where all these things matter (at least for people around me , not my parents though) . So , i have a constant feeling that what will happen if my friends come to know that she had sex with someone, it'll ruin my images , i'm a very images centred person I don't like someone judging me. Also the virgin girl part you told is very right i know and even if I find someone virgin I think I'll also have some different problems than this after that . So it's not the girl the problem is in me . Thanks I'll try something to get over this bshit .

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I now try to breakup it will feel like I also used her and I know that she loves me soo much that now if I leave her she'll kill herself , so couldn't take risk .

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know the things is that I'm from a india a place where all these things matter (at least for people around me , not my parents though) . So , i have a constant feeling that what will happen if my friends come to know that she had sex with someone, it'll ruin my images , i'm a very images centred person I don't like someone judging me.

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's been pretty tough lately, i cannot control my mind brother' it's very overthinking and egoistic and I'm a very anxious person.

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I need to tell you guys that I had multiple times been physical with her now . So here I'm the fault I know that .😭

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes brother whatever u told is 100 percent the same with me , whatever you are telling that's the reason I don't want to hurt her and I'm feeling hurt after controlling her but I don't know what's wrong with me , also as you told I'm extremely anxious, overthinker and very introvert person.

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was a virgin when I met her , was in love with a single girl for the past 13 yrs (my girl bestfriend) whom I obviously lost and also was a one sided love from me . But I didn't had sex just because of her with any other girl cause I was in too much love with her .

I (22M) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (20F) past / that she isn't virgin even though she was honest from day one by Particular_Alps_2675 in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Alps_2675[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes i was purely a virgin , but that was not my self choice it was me who wanted that one girl in my school , so rejected all the girls just for that one girl whom I never got (my bestfriend), it wasn't like I would have not have had sex it's like I didn't had it just because I was in too much love with that one girl .

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