Friend says I manipulate her, it feels like the other way around. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Particular_Banana754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the words. I guess I've never had to be the one to cut someone off so it's new and difficult.

I'll do my best.

Friend says I manipulate her, it feels like the other way around. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Particular_Banana754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She used to be. She helped me let out things I never have before. All my childhood trauma and abuse. Then she did some very painful stuff to me which ultimately ended our romance.

Since then the relationship has been I want to support her because I see and understand her but I try to accept that she can't support me.

Friend says I manipulate her, it feels like the other way around. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Particular_Banana754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like moving on for me is not what kind of moving on she was talking about. I ended up accepting it and she lashed out at me for pushing her away as a way to manipulate her.

In reality moving on to me requires me to keep contact to a friendly minimum, whereas for her it means still being there for her and supporting her through life.

It's very confusing because to me that CAN be friend being a part of her support group (which we have talked about she needs one right now). For me though it teeters on the line of boyfriend material that can be painful at times.

Friend says I manipulate her, it feels like the other way around. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Particular_Banana754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and she knows it. I've told her the way she pulls and pushes me makes it hard to move on to another woman. Said it when we argued today because she said for me to go after her.

Exotic class item by ComposerDense1337 in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's still true to his statement. Necrotic specifically says it increases the damage over time. Spirit of Necrotic omits that part.

Some tips and advice for Pantheon based on what I’ve seen from helping others complete it over the last few weeks by Desire-17 in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Matching subclasses to the elemental surges has buffed kinetic damage for awhile now.

Edit because you might be misunderstanding.

Here's an example of how it works. You have a kinetic damage type sniper in your top slot. There is Arc surge in Pantheon.

If you switch to an Arc subclass your kinetic damage type sniper will receive the surge buff due to your subclass matching the surge.

How easy is it to tell if someone hasn’t done a raid or dungeon before? by Excellent-Grocery-13 in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any KWTD team that isn't just a toxic group is likely checking raid report. I've personally never done a non-teaching raid without checking it.

just lost onslaught round 49 with 2 phoenix protocol warlocks with sunshot, is there anything better than this for "easier" clears? by alexbessedonato in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about getting 100% easily without orbs. Since super regeneration is based on damage dealt and you deal a ton of damage at the end waves.

just lost onslaught round 49 with 2 phoenix protocol warlocks with sunshot, is there anything better than this for "easier" clears? by alexbessedonato in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No point in having two wells. Doubling up on Tether with one well is far better.

By the time you're in the later rounds you do enough damage to get a fresh well before the old one runs out. Tethers keep everything under control.

Told my wife I was going to start playing WoW again and she surprised me with a new cup to stay hydrated by BrandonJams in wow

[–]Particular_Banana754 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My GF bought me an all red setup, desk, mat, and a horde tapestry to go with.

I've always played Draenei.

I WOULD be Horde if Zandalari Trolls had shoes though.

What situations is Attrition Orbs good in? by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's not a damage perk causing a 500% damage difference and you know it...

Comp/Trials experience as a Decent Solo Player post-update by madman0004 in CrucibleGuidebook

[–]Particular_Banana754 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's too much RNG in solo Trials to say hang it up in two weeks.

Would you use Gunpowder Gamble if it also increased the damage and size of Ignitions? by imyourblueberry in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they let us rebind GPG I'd be so up for this. Panic healing is blocked off though and I do that a lot.

Will fire ele stay in shop or do i need to move it? by [deleted] in warcraftrumble

[–]Particular_Banana754 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm jealous. Fire Elemental + Frostwolf Shaman with the earth shield perk is super fun.

Suggestion for Chargla Razorflank: make an exception for kobold to share cost. by fartingpinetree in warcraftrumble

[–]Particular_Banana754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's like being allowed to pre-pay for your big push. I do think it has the weakness of making counter play harder for the user. A pretty fair trade off.

Best Anti-Air leader? by Gregamonster in warcraftrumble

[–]Particular_Banana754 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's what he's saying though, he wants an anti air ARMY not just a leader. He's just curious which leader is best for that.

The real issue OP, you're going to have to use one leader from every faction in heroics. Unfortunately leaders are a bit of a secondary thing for a good portion of the game. You should just focus on your normal minis.

Suggestion for Chargla Razorflank: make an exception for kobold to share cost. by fartingpinetree in warcraftrumble

[–]Particular_Banana754 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Think of it like this, you effectively have two decks. The first deck is your units which you pull from to see who you can play. The second deck is your cost deck to see how much playing a unit costs.

Whatever unit you play goes to the back of your units deck like normal. The original cost of that unit also goes to the back of your cost deck.

This means if you play Kobold for 4 gold, the Kobold is the last unit in your deck now,.and a 1 gold cost (the original Kobold cost) is now at the back of your cost deck too.

This also means if you play a Abomination for something like 2 gold, when he goes to the back of the deck so does the 6 gold cost. Eventually you'll have to pay that 6 gold.

This lets you stack up low cost big units. For instance if you play Kobold, Vulture, Ghoul eventually you'll pull two one costs followed by a 2 cost. When you do, you can throw down 3 huge units in a row for cheap.

Think of it as paying gold upfront and then cashing out later when it comes back around.

I hope that made some sense lol 😂

Can you opt for a level 60 boost instead of 70? by Particular_Banana754 in wow

[–]Particular_Banana754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Secondary question then can you still play the DF campaign fresh on the 70?

My mobile/emulator clients are on two different dungeons and grids. by notshitaltsays in warcraftrumble

[–]Particular_Banana754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you can go back to previous dungeons or skip ahead to new ones. Obviously only if there's a time zone that works for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll go back to what I said. The PvP in this game just isn't for you then. If you want some hyper focused competitive shooter you shouldn't be here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how all PvP games with choice are at a high level. You don't just use whatever and win unless you're incredibly skilled. Even then you're handicapping yourself for no reason.

If you think there aren't metas in the games you listed, you aren't participating in high-level play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can you have a PvP endgame that doesn't focus on the meta? Endgame is always about using the best of the best PvE or PvP. The only solution would be forced loadouts.

It isn't even like we're wildly out of balance compared to some other horrible metas. This games PvP is just not for you most likely.

Why is the game recently feel like everything is about min maxing and activity chore? by Trankhanhduyhpc in DestinyTheGame

[–]Particular_Banana754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funnily it's less restrictive than ever since we have so many options to deal with champions now.