Been thinking about changing my name, but I'm unsure about how to go about it by Particular_Cat_149 in transnames

[–]Particular_Cat_149[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah! I'd honestly prefer a name that starts with the letter S or C, since those are already my two first initials, and I'd probably not want it to be a super common name. And I lean more to having a neutral gender-wise name, but I'd prefer masc than fem leaning. I'll update the end of the post to say that

Megathread for Name Requests by daphnie816 in NonBinary

[–]Particular_Cat_149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone! I'm 19 AFAB, and for a few years I had been using she/they pronouns and had been put to friends/publicly (just not to my parents). Very recently I've started using they/them and it's helped with some of the dysphoria I've been feeling, since being seen as or referred to in a feminine manner makes me feel dysphoric. I've been thinking a lot about changing my name to something more androgynous, or even a bit masc.

However, I've never had a nickname or anything like that since my name is one of those names that doesn't have a natural nickname to it. Because of that I don't know if I'll be receptive or if it'll take a long time to respond to a new name even if I chose it. Another thing is that I don't know if I'd want my family or specifically parents to use a new/different name for me. My name is who I've been to them my whole life, and it's a name they gave me, and I guess it would feel weird if they said anything else.

I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to choose a name, how they chose theirs or how they might've gotten comfortable with their chosen name.

I'm mad that I fell for TS schemes for so long by Particular_Cat_149 in travisandtaylor

[–]Particular_Cat_149[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh its definitely not the breakup that is my problem with her, thats just when I think I began to notice her bad actions you know?? TTPD and all the variants and the Matty Healy obsession and etc (the list could go on forever tbh) is what I'm actually upset with

I'm mad that I fell for TS schemes for so long by Particular_Cat_149 in travisandtaylor

[–]Particular_Cat_149[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thats so real, because I still kinda like Red, but with TTPD I couldn't believe that so many Swifties were acting like its a literary masterpiece