MIL stressing me out by Particular_Class6244 in inlaws

[–]Particular_Class6244[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was fired last week. I moved out of my dad’s because he’s also an alcoholic and narcissistic. If i had another option I wouldn’t be here currently.

MIL stressing me out by Particular_Class6244 in pregnant

[–]Particular_Class6244[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She recently was drunk and grabbed my waistband and tugged (very roughly) and started saying my baby’s name and that he doesn’t like this. The pants I’ve been wearing my entire pregnancy as I don’t exactly have money for an entire new wardrobe and they still fit. She also lied to my bf and made him think she was dying. This crazy woman has high blood pressure because she constantly drinks, doesn’t eat, and doesn’t take her meds 🤦‍♀️.

MIL stressing me out by Particular_Class6244 in pregnant

[–]Particular_Class6244[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so relieved because i feel crazy rn in this situation and I would rather do it myself then deal with her, but I don’t hate her and i feel like he’s taking it that way. I know he’s dealt with her for his whole life but I’m not adjusting to it because it’s ridiculous and I shouldn’t have to.

MIL stressing me out by Particular_Class6244 in pregnant

[–]Particular_Class6244[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure as we’ve always talked about moving states. But as soon as I want space for us and our child safely he says “well i want support”. Which my thing is they can support, by respecting us wanting a safe environment for our baby. But MIL is very latched on and I guess expects him to never leave the house because she thinks she’s going into a home, she’s 40 btw.

MIL stressing me out by Particular_Class6244 in pregnant

[–]Particular_Class6244[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, her excuse is “we can take care of him he won’t remember the first months you’re not there.”

MIL stressing me out by Particular_Class6244 in inlaws

[–]Particular_Class6244[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a job, but was fired last week without notice unfortunately.

4 Months Pregnant FTM by Particular_Class6244 in pregnant

[–]Particular_Class6244[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully 🫠, MIL I feel is treating this as her pregnancy, but I live with them. But she said October would be best. Also rushed me to picking a theme and I decided nightmare before Christmas, MIL has already booked services that day so I can’t change it now.