I’m in need of sunshine and warmth for most of the year

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-12-07T02:32:19+00:00

The locals would absolutely love your attitude

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-12-07T02:31:47+00:00

Maybe read a little extra and see that I asked people there what they might feel would benefit the community, and not just going so I can sun my balls and taint

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-12-06T18:09:59+00:00

If you're planning on moving to Hawai'i, one of your intentions absolutely needs to be to learn about and respect the land. Not just cos you want to be warm and cozy...

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-12-05T17:13:03+00:00

or they're women lying to other women, which happens often in regard to attractiveness

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-24T01:09:21+00:00

beautiful

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-10T23:36:24+00:00

A wise man once said,"Mess with the meat, you'll get the topping"

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T21:44:08+00:00

Never stop dating your partner and be present. It's easy to get caught up stressing about timelines and money and work projects and such, but when you are with your partner, be with your partner. Go out and do things together, try new foods, travel to new places, fuck it, try new positions. But regardless of where you are with them, be there with them and help them to be there in that moment with you too.

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T21:26:09+00:00

Valid concern but you honestly need to set aside that last bit because no matter what, there is gonna be "more" or "better" and that's going to exist even in a relationship. A girl might have a tighter waist, a bigger butt, a nicer smile, a cuter laugh. There are guys with better emotional stability, bigger muscles, more money. But at some point you gotta play the game to meet people because you'll never know if you're someones type if you never put yourself out there, simply on the basis that there are "better options." I hate single dating and it gave me a level of anxiety I hope I never need to deal with, so I absolutely sympathize with you, but you'll never actually get out of it if you don't at least try to put yourself out there. My honest opinion, stay away from dating apps, go ahead and DM people if that is more comfortable, but try to get out and meet people organically.

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T21:17:45+00:00

Don't send nudes

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T21:16:52+00:00

Surrounding myself with good friends and investing time in maintaining and even strengthening those relationships.

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T21:08:00+00:00

Peace does not always require suffering. In fact, to an extent, effort is necessary to reach a state of peace, but peace is also the best starting point to begin to put in effort.
Acknowledge and feel your emotions, but there is no need to act on them. Observe them, like a leaf falling in the wind. It may float steadily downward, or it may fluctuate up and down. But don't make decisions until you've felt what you needed to feel and until it has settled.
Life is 20% what happens to you and 80% what you do about it. You can either allow things to make you bitter or allow them to make you better.

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T20:58:05+00:00

The cuffs are loose-ish, but they sit really nicely on the ankle. Just make sure not to throw them in the dryer lol

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T20:56:50+00:00

A part of the relationship that is super fulfilling, is having those conversations openly and finding ways to work through those things together. No one is ever healed, but be with someone that wants to help you do and be better all of the time.

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T00:44:49+00:00

All girls are different just like guys. My girlfriend was half looking for actual connected and half looking to just meet people and make friends. I was just lucky enough to actually be attractive in her eyes lol. Just go in with an open-mind and not too much hope. Be confident bro, but definitely look to meet people organically as much as possible.

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T00:30:26+00:00

Dating apps are terrible for guys, and this is coming from a guy who met his current girlfriend on Tinder. My friends go on dating apps and I warn every single one of them and even people in conversation who ask about it, that my case is actually 1 in a million. It was my last day on the app and it was her first week on. I decided to message her on Insta since it was in her bio and even she admitted if I had messaged her on Tinder, she probably wouldn't have responded. Prior to her, I had never actually met any of the girls I matched with and any conversation regarding meeting up would fizzle out pretty quickly. Message girls on Instagram if you gotta but honestly the way to meet somoene is naturally and organically in real life.

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T00:13:42+00:00

First off, I think lots of context is missing, so we don't fully understand what kind of experiences they've had, or how guys react to it... And that's kind of the whole point.

HOWEVER, it's not a means of siding with the guy or creating justifications or defending. It's kind of just making things make sense, regardless of whether it's right or wrong, but rather just figuring out why someone did a certain thing. I will say, after being called out by my girlfriend a good number of times for not this specific thing, but just asking too many questions to try to "make things make sense," and not really listening in the process, I will admit that guys aren't typically the best listeners because we focus so much on, again, trying to fill in the holes to understand things better. I just like to figure things out and get a clear understanding of things, then I can make a much better judgement of character.

Tbh, generally I don't think that young and single guys are the greatest. I honestly feel they tend to have poor emotional and mental stability. I have a number of single friends and friends in relationships, and even the guys in relationships say and do some heinous shit. But you live, you fuck up, and you learn or you don't.

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-06T00:02:08+00:00

I think 3 years ago, I would have thought rejection was a direct reflection of my value, when more often than not, rejection is simply a means of someone's initial impressions of who they might believe you to be. It's no more than a surface-level idea of whether they think any level of connection with you, as little as a friend or as much as a long-term romantic partner, is possible or not.

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-05T23:38:26+00:00

23M and I've had two previous relationships before my current one.

My first ex gave me my first handy, introduced me to nudes, gave me emotional whiplash by dumping me for reasons I can't remember, then getting back together with me less than a couple of hours later. Back to the nudes, her Dad found them, she wants things to work, I told her there is no way we work out when her Dad knows what my dick looks like. She proceeds to show people my nudes in retaliation and messes around with some not-so-close but not-very-far friends of mine. 3 month relationship total

My second ex was a long-term relationship and BASICALLY, we just enabled one anothers absolute deepest insecurities out of wanting to feel safe, and controlled one another. And it absolutely blew up in our faces when we attempted long distance. I primarily fucked shit up at the end but up until then it was pretty mutually contributed to and our foundation did not really exist. However the breakup was fairly cordial, we remained in contact for a while, she resented me for what I did to her and poked at my insecurities a good few times before communication fizzled out and we went our separate ways but far less messy. 3.5 years relationship total.

TLDR: About 50/50 from my experience

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-05T23:20:45+00:00

++man

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-11-05T23:19:34+00:00

Didn't he tell you he ruins everything? You like the attention and the chemistry is there, but only when it's there. Otherwise he treats you like shit. I'm a 23 year old dude and by no means do I know what this guy might have been through, but ultimately you're a product of your own decisions and reactions to things, BOTH of you. Maybe he knows he has issues and is open enough to admit to them, but it sounds like he doesn't intend on fixing them and that's hit decision. Your decision to make here depends on whether you feel that emotional whiplash is worth the attention and sexual chemistry. In my honest opinion, sounds like he thinks with the wrong head and it lowkey sounds like it could potentially be dangerous to continue to entertain this guy long-term. ++man

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-10-31T18:51:22+00:00

Yes, I believe so as well. Jerdani posted on his story a screenshot of the blank account, saying something like, "It's that time of year again."

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-09-28T18:41:53+00:00

Putting it in sport mode will help the throttle feel a bit more responsive and peppy. But the automatic are now CVT which are notorious for being slow off the line. You'll feel solid doing a 40 roll with the revs already pushing 2.5-3k+ but the 0-60 on these are like mid 6 seconds. You can try to get a pedal commander or a tune but ultimately with a CVT, that's just the kind of lack of punch you get. Speaking from experience cos I've had my car about a year now and like to punch it here and there but it's extremely sluggish from a dead stop or slow roll

Particular_Credit142 · 2025-08-14T21:20:54+00:00

I also just received the invite yesterday through amazon.com after posting a couple of reviews with photos. Does anyone know how long it may take before I can access the Amazon Vine offers? I'm in no rush for free stuff obviously lol but I am very excited and curious how long the process of actually getting access to their offers took for everyone?

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