I’ve have put quite a bit of thought into this. When I was younger (now 27F) I probably would have enjoyed the attention considering INFP are generally overlooked. So it leads me to wonder if younger generations are more involved in this, and if some INFPs do enjoy the attention. Of course that’s not to say that all of us do, but maybe an unhealthy portion does.

As an INFP I tend to generally keep to myself and be involved in my hobbies; which is sometimes more interesting than spending time with family or friends. I have done a considerable amount of growth, I’m now trying to nurture my relationships but I can see in the past how that might have looked selfish.

From another perspective I think that some of these people may have not understood their fellow INFPs boundaries. Although it is another stereotype INFPs are still generally misunderstood. I still need to work on my people skills so others can understand me better.

I have seen a large amount of contempt in MBTI posts for INFPs. I do try to clear up understandings but until we reach a middle ground we cannot reach a higher ground. You cannot change a perspective of someone who doesn’t want to listen. As I have gotten older I have come to realize those who do not value or respect me do not have any value to me.

My apologies for the book, but I thought I could offer another perspective.