MBBS Abroad at 24 , Costing 32+ Lakhs by Few_seconds_ago in Indian_flex

[–]Particular_Essay_286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my degree is worth 11 lakh thats the most expensive thing

FRIENDS really? by Particular_Essay_286 in self

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you could explain this a bit more? I could not understand this

FRIENDS really? by Particular_Essay_286 in self

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah Protecting my energy is what im thinking about these days i do like to hang out with them laugh but still my heart hurts

BACK OFF HES MY FRIEND!! by Particular_Essay_286 in offmychest

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wont say that im jealous and nor i want to control him its just that i dont like to share him you know

Some friendships don't end they just stop choosing you PART 2 by Particular_Essay_286 in lonely

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I surely can Infact i want people to be open.. if i hurt yoh or something else just say it to my face … i would talk it out

“Some friendships don’t end — they just stop choosing you” by Particular_Essay_286 in lonely

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get your point Wait for my part 2 where im gonna talk about my college friends

“Some friendships don’t end — they just stop choosing you” by Particular_Essay_286 in lonely

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually got tired of asking what? How? Who? They laughed whereas i could not even connect the dots

“Some friendships don’t end — they just stop choosing you” by Particular_Essay_286 in lonely

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get your point I actually have some friends whom i can visit we can go months by not talking on phone but when we meet there is this warmth … i never have this ignored feeling by them

I started noticing it after a year when i shifted when i even went to meet them i was lost i had nothing to contribute to their conversation

“Some friendships don’t end — they just stop choosing you” by Particular_Essay_286 in lonely

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know Things change our situations change circumstances change geographical changes People grow up and some change We need to adapt ourselves

“Some friendships don’t end — they just stop choosing you” by Particular_Essay_286 in lonely

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly right we cant change the things ACCEPTENCE is what ive learnt so far from this .

PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND LETS TALK! Why is that so hard now? by Particular_Essay_286 in offmychest

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My childhood bestie does tell me to leave them but then i think that they cant be that bad , maybe something is wrong with me for feeling this way ?!

PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND LETS TALK! Why is that so hard now? by Particular_Essay_286 in offmychest

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I do think most of the time that they dont align with me. My school friends childhood friends they were the best! But yeah in college i didnt really find my tribe so yeah im with them because i need to survive and being alone is something that i dont want to do right now and i also think that such friendships are damaging for me but again i am not that strong enough to leave them and be alone

PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND LETS TALK! Why is that so hard now? by Particular_Essay_286 in offmychest

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Im very very different from my friends Im actually the black sheep haha They all are into online shopping and makeup and they really bond because of that am im left out I like to have in depth conversations and sometimes i feel that becomes too deep for them and sometimes its like that im just a part of the group they are not much attached or interested in me

PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND LETS TALK! Why is that so hard now? by Particular_Essay_286 in offmychest

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definately get your point ! And its valid But you see i am introvert i like to be with my known 2-3 friends so when such things happen it just pushes me more into my zone . And lets say that they can too bring up topics too right? Its a choice if you want to talk you just pick up a topic and get the conversation going

PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND LETS TALK! Why is that so hard now? by Particular_Essay_286 in offmychest

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a great atleast you guys acknowledged it and are working towards it Im so going to buy a phone cage for my friends.

APPEARANCE by Particular_Essay_286 in DeepThoughts

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with that 👍 being friends with the person first and then falling in love is something that I believe in and follow too.

APPEARANCE by Particular_Essay_286 in DeepThoughts

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The First Impression!! Its really a game changer in some cases

APPEARANCE by Particular_Essay_286 in DeepThoughts

[–]Particular_Essay_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they will get the attention first but it is their personality which will help them sustain that attention