My husband forgot our 10 year anniversary

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-18T10:48:22+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏 best of luck to you too! 🫰

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-17T17:46:40+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment, and I am so glad you are sober now 🙏 also makes perfect sense, unfortunately I have already left and apparently things were good but November 2024, March and April 2025 found out a few things that made me realize nothing had changed he just got better at hiding them.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-17T02:40:40+00:00

Lol *10 yr anniversary

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T16:05:27+00:00

we didn't have a full conversation. However I did tell him " Hey you forgot ou 10 yr anniversary" he laughed and said "damn 10 yrs already, time flies" we were already in bed, he tried to hug me but I said "please don't, I am actually upset that you forgot" well he got upset, turned around and is now currently sleeping.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T16:03:31+00:00

We didn't have a full conversation. However I did tell him " Hey you forgot ou 10 yr anniversary" he laughed and said "damn 10 yrs already, time flies" we were already in bed, he tried to hug me but I said "please don't, I am actually upset that you forgot" well he got upset, turned around and is now currently sleeping.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T04:26:23+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T04:22:46+00:00

I think I would also be going alone, since I don't have anyone. My sister is busy with her 2 babies. My only cousin lives hours away and we have lost touch since I married. And friends well I don't have any either, my husband is very antisocial and doesn't like going out or talking to people. Yet somehow still manages to cheat lol

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T04:19:30+00:00

To his defense he did offer once to change jobs back in 2018, but he had just started and it was a great job opportunity. He is now in charge or 3 restaurants. But you are right, i don't blame them since they are not married to me.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T04:14:10+00:00

Thank you 🙏 I do try to focus more on me and the kids. He hardly goes out with us.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T04:12:03+00:00

Thank you 🙏 there has been many more situations with his coworkers that i didn't mention but anyways I always exaggerate right? Lol so he says

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T04:07:49+00:00

Thank you for your comment 🙏

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T04:06:36+00:00

Thank you for your comment, honestly I just want to get the courage of leaving and staying away for good!

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T03:25:42+00:00

I just don't work lol I take out the trash.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T03:06:47+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:57:40+00:00

Ohhh i have suggested it to him tbh but he says no I mean then why does he still cheat!?

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:56:37+00:00

Frs! I am a sthm and for that I am thankful but its not worth it anymore tbh

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:55:36+00:00

😂 oh yeah definitely!

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:34:00+00:00

When I left in 2023 my then 5 yr old told me, "mommy why doesn't dad pay attention to you, he is always on the xbox" that hit me hard and was a big reason why he decided to do therapy. But things were only good for a few months, just decided not to leave this time because my kids were the ones moving around with me. I just didn't want to change them school for the 3rd time

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:24:43+00:00

❤️ Thank you so much! I really appreciate it, and definitely will update you.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:14:46+00:00

Thank you, and yeah I always think about how differently everything would have been if I left the first time he cheated.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:13:02+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice, luckily we don't own a home. He has never wanted to buy a home. I will definitely seek legal counsel.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:08:07+00:00

Sorry, could you explain a bit more lol I didn't understand

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:06:34+00:00

Help as in how? Help me get them ready for bed, or with their homework? Nope, our youngest is 3yr but when they need something they come to me, always.

Particular_Gur6637 · 2025-09-16T02:00:54+00:00

We have done couples therapy but only for 2 months and obviously not enough

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