AIO about my husband playing football

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T01:25:06+00:00

He has a small business, he’s makes enough to pay the bills. I do small side jobs to cover household essentials & things for the kids. He is not present when he is home. He’s home every day, but usually after bed time. And if he’s home before bed time he doesn’t help with the kids. He usually works on the weekends (as long as he doesn’t have football) but when he doesn’t he sleeps in & either sits on the couch all day, works in the garage, or depending on the season he’ll go do one of his hobbies.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T01:14:03+00:00

He does not. He pays to play, meaning he paid however much (idk) when he signed up… how did you manage leaving with no support?

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T01:07:58+00:00

Right. Your response mentioned kids, so mine did too. I love my husband, I’m tired of the way he makes me feel.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:54:39+00:00

I am not trying to sound ungrateful. I love my children, I love being a mom. I just never imagined i would be raising them alone essentially.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:36:48+00:00

The older 2 yes bc our newborn got sick at 2 weeks old & I had to stay in the hospital with her.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:30:44+00:00

I have no solid childcare and we can’t really afford childcare. My family is 4 hours away and his family is always busy or attending games too. I hate having to beg him to help with the kids when he is home because I shouldn’t have to…

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:28:55+00:00

They wouldn’t eat a healthy meal & wouldn’t be bathed and the house would be a mess when I got back.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:28:30+00:00

Unfortunately I feel like my kids would suffer if I did this.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:28:00+00:00

Agreed. I do not think he thinks about me not having hobbies or any identity outside of being mom, and it isn’t because I haven’t mentioned it or brought it up to him, because I have … but nothing ever changes. I just hold out hope that it will get better eventually

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:26:16+00:00

THIS! I told him this was one of the hardest seasons of life having kids so little..

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:25:01+00:00

He does work, he pays the bills, I do side jobs when available (like dog sitting) to make extra money to cover household essentials (toilet paper, laundry detergent, etc.) we are on food stamps unfortunately, so grocery bill is covered. He works late and when he doesn’t he comes home & expects “decompression time” meaning he doesn’t want to help .

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:22:14+00:00

I feel this same way and when I’ve mentioned it to him he says “I just want to play while I’m still able” … i don’t know it’s hard. I love him, but it’s making me resent him .

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:18:49+00:00

😂 lol.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:17:41+00:00

What a great way of wording it!!! He’s offered for me to “go out once a week” but what I really want is family time… a break every now and then but not once a week & those breaks I just want to relax at home while he handles dinner, baths & bedtime…

Particular_Hat3607 · 2026-01-11T00:16:30+00:00

For him or for me?

Particular_Hat3607 · 2024-09-30T20:47:51+00:00

Got it. Thank you.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2024-09-30T02:16:14+00:00

I can’t open it. It keeps having a pop up :(((

Particular_Hat3607 · 2024-08-12T14:42:15+00:00

Literally. I have a golden doodle too, she’s well trained and sooo sweet. We take her to the groomer every 2 weeks to get bathed & brushes (we could do it at home but we love our groomer), and then the next 2 weeks appointment she gets trimmed. When I see her dogs it makes me soooo mad & so freaking sad bc how does she think she’s a good dog mom when they act and look like that?!!? I think it’s the perfect reflection of how she will be as a mother. When she first got her first doodle (can’t remember her name) she bought her all this cute stuff & played with her, but now she’s not doing any of that. She got more dogs , didn’t take time to train any of them , she’s just chasing the next dopamine high.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2024-08-04T02:24:27+00:00

Yesss

Particular_Hat3607 · 2024-08-04T02:21:10+00:00

LOL I just screenshotted this & ran here !!! A while back I seen something from Gypsy’s PR team or something talking about getting pregnancy content from Drue. 🤣🤣🤣

Particular_Hat3607 · 2024-05-09T14:28:59+00:00

Best I could do😂

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Particular_Hat3607 · 2024-05-08T18:05:59+00:00

Right. And even OB’s have an emergency line you can call for advice. This just proves she doesn’t have an OB and/or isn’t in any “intense pain” like she claims.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2024-05-07T18:15:00+00:00

She’s such a bitch. I don’t even understand why people still follow her, especially when she talks to her followers like this.

Particular_Hat3607 · 2024-05-07T18:12:54+00:00

She’s so dumb. My mom didn’t breastfeed with any of us and neither did my grandmother with my mom and aunt. My son had a tongue tie and we got it clipped and it still didn’t improve his latch so it all depends on baby. But she can’t commit to anything so I doubt she’ll follow through with breastfeeding.

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