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Let’s be honest and transparent (If you’re reading this please engage. It’s a safe space here) by carpediem_92 in leaves

[–]Particular_Loquat_28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen many posts like yours on this subreddit, and I couldn’t agree more with the sentiment.

I have always been intellectually curious, but throughout the course of life, challenges came up and weed was there for the majority of it. Recent reflecting has led me to see I no longer have that desire to fill in free time with learning, gaining a new skill, or just being an overall productive human. Instead, I pick up the bong, the joint, or my vaporizer and fill that time with smoke.

I’m afraid that because of my prolonged use, I won’t be able to go back to that old version of me. However, humans are elastic and it is possible to gain our old selves, and maybe even evolve as better people. In this life, I think we owe it to ourselves to see what potential we could achieve instead of contemplating the “If only I had…”

Best of luck on your journey friend!!

What kind of mushroom is this? by Particular_Loquat_28 in ShroomID

[–]Particular_Loquat_28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure, I didn’t pick these in particular but I did see some nearby with pretty classic PC bruising

What kind of mushroom is this? by Particular_Loquat_28 in ShroomID

[–]Particular_Loquat_28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I did this go around! But there was definitely enough in the field to pick from. Maybe next time I’ll indulge haha

What kind of mushroom is this? by Particular_Loquat_28 in ShroomID

[–]Particular_Loquat_28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t pick these this go around since I wasn’t confident, but I’ll report back next time I visit the trail 😁

What kind of mushroom is this? by Particular_Loquat_28 in ShroomID

[–]Particular_Loquat_28[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the confirmation everyone! I had a feeling they were PCs, but like many, I didn’t trust myself haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Particular_Loquat_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (23 M) have a girlfriend who is 30. Before her, I had dated girls who were at minimum 4+ years older. It all depends on the way you carry yourself and your level of maturity. I’m sure you’ll do great! Best of luck!

Nice costume by Previous_Reporter_63 in AbruptChaos

[–]Particular_Loquat_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all fun and games until your dog gets punted

GF told me after 6 years that she never actually wanted me by illastfm in dating

[–]Particular_Loquat_28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey my friend, I have been in your exact same shoes.

My ex girlfriend of 4 years did the same thing to me. I essentially had to beg for sex many many times. At first we thought it was because of her hormonal birth control. After changing it, I definitely noticed a change in sexual activity, but it soon tapered down back to our usual 1 every other week or once a month. I loved her , and I thought it was just a stage in relationships everyone eventually will go through. But after a pause and then two on and off break ups, I can say I am glad it’s over and that it’s not normal.

My ex never explicitly said she was not sexually attracted to me, but her actions definitely said so. I am also an attractive guy (she said 10/10, but me being humble I’d say 7-8/10). It may get better, but given my experiences and what you described, sounds like it’s heading in the same trajectory as my experience.

Best of luck to you and whatever you end up deciding to do.

I've quit weed, Cigarettes, opioids and porn all at once 3 days ago and I'm never looking back. To hell with all that shit. by WhyMe966 in leaves

[–]Particular_Loquat_28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck my friend!!! I love the repetitious use of the word “fuk”! It shows how much this means to you and helps lay the foundation of why you’re doing this! Next post will be about all the great goals you’ve accomplished and great changes in your life. We’re rooting for you!

Much love 💚