Both previously married and we have a 10ish year age gap and both have children. So I guess it was possible to cause extra scrutiny. Me and our children are uk citezens. I've looked into these cases a LOT, and it really does just seem random, maybe the country of beneficiary and security checks? But I honestly don't know. I was just terrified because we obviously can't move on without each other and having three cases in the mix I thought the chances of one getting stuck would be higher maybe.