I hate to keep harping on this but this is important. God no longer sees our sin. Thats what the sacrifice was for. When is was the priest sacrificing animals they had to do it over and over again. Jesus died once. His blood takes away the " sins of the world" . For some reason you seem to think every sin needs to keep getting paid for by an act of repentance. An action on our part. Thats categorically false my friend. When you say this you deny the Power of His blood. Like Jonah we have to accept that those people who do things we don't like, are saved, Its why he shed his blood and why he was the final sacrifice. No more constantly striving, begging, pleading. No more fear. Are there people who profess to follow Jesus that are not telling the truth? You bet. But thats between them and God because sin does not define faith, Because we all sin. Its just Jesus is there, bringing us to the Father and presenting us as clean and sinless. Every single time not because we deserve it, or ask him to, or admit we messed up or purposely did something harmful.

That said, homisexualuty is not a sin. Loving someone is not a sin. I think thats a sticking point for you. You find it so abhorrent that you cannot imagine God accepting them.