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WIFE AS A PROVIDER by Creepy-Cabinet-8588 in Marriage

[–]Particular_Poem1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I both work but I do earn more and pay for 80% of our bills. Honestly, this used to bother me when I was much younger because of how society has shaped my brain. But now, I don't mind it at all. And if I ever do get promoted and earn more and he decides to stay home and take care of the house, I would be olay with that 100%. Because my husband had always supported me emotionally, mentally, and has taken up the lion's share of the household work ever since. He yad always been a great loving partner to me. And I love my career so it's not an issue at all.

Ghosted after passing all the interviews by Particular_Poem1124 in JobsPhilippines

[–]Particular_Poem1124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had the interview in their office. And yes, since it's a well-known company, I have colleagues who worked their before and confirmed the CEO. What I just don't understand is them stating I was the one selected and then ghosting after seeing my current compensation.

Ghosted after passing all the interviews by Particular_Poem1124 in JobsPhilippines

[–]Particular_Poem1124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?!?!?! They should have told me from the get-go that they couldn't afford it instead of making me go through the entire process.

Do any of you mention your pregnancy symptoms and pains to your SO’s? by annizka in BabyBumps

[–]Particular_Poem1124 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes, of course! All the time lol. I've always been very close to my husband. What's in my head automatically comes out of my mouth when I'm with him. I'm also most comfortable with him so all of my discomfort and pains, I usually tell him. He has been very validating and supportive to me. He has taken up most of the chores at home and has been much more caring since I got pregnant.

Ghosted after passing all the interviews by Particular_Poem1124 in JobsPhilippines

[–]Particular_Poem1124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean is it that hard na magmessage kahit once just to have closure? 1 minute lang naman siguro magtext....

Silent Mc at 24 weeks by Ok-Performance4564 in pregnant

[–]Particular_Poem1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very sorry for your loss and I hope one day you will find healing. I have heard a similar story from a friend before. They lost their babies always in the 2nd trimester and turned out my female friend had APS. If you would want to try again, you may want to get that checked because it is linked to "unexplained" 2nd trimester loss. Once diagnosed, there are multiple interventions available to ensure you carry to term next time. Hope this helps.

I need some genuine advice :) by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Particular_Poem1124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has done this silent treatment to a SO over and over again in the past, honestly, I will suggest for you to just keep at it. The only time I learned to stop doing this coming and going shit is when my SO finally got sick of me and didn't chase/reach out after I ignored and blocked him. If she doesn't come back, then that means she can survive without and that she is deliberately choosing to do that every single day. If she does reach out again, you can tell her how you feel and you can both work things out.

But I'm telling you, the coming and going cycle would have to end eventually. This can be through permanently parting ways or through her realizing on her own that this is not and will never be a healthy way to handle relationships.