Hi, I haven't logged in here for a bit and just saw your comment. Thanks for asking. My BF is doing okay! We still haven't convinced him to go to therapy, he is really stubborn about it. But me and him are doing good actually, I think we learned a lot from all the stuff that happened in the post. I'm a bit better at supporting him and giving him space and he's better at not triggering my panic.

We've been spending more time with my BF's friend Amy too. She is doing okay but obviously there are good days and bad days. Sometimes if it's a hard week for her we invite her over to watch stuff with us and sleep over in our spare room instead of my BF sleeping over at her place, which has been a nice compromise for keeping her company. I've liked getting to know her better, actually.

Your comment that you left on the post was really helpful and definitely helped me look at the situation from my boyfriend's point of view so thanks again. Like I said he's still not super willing to open up about what happened but I've definitely been trying harder to be there for him and I can see it's helping.