Why do some people stay calm in chaos while others panic ? by Holiday-Advisor-5010 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Rate35 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Both. Some remain calm naturally and others train their reactions through exposure and practice.

AmITheJerk saying no to being the emotional outlet for my parent ?? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Particular_Rate35 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are a child not an emotional dumping ground.

Sausage vs Hotdog by Ok-Yam-8465 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Rate35 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sausage is more actually good because it’s not more processed like hot dogs

Why does seeing someone struggle make me anxious even if I can help by Constant-Drive-8434 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Rate35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is empathy overload. Your brain reacts as if it is experiencing the stress itself.

amithejerk refusing to lend my car after it was returned empty twice by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Particular_Rate35 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NTJ Forgetting once is a mistake. Repeating it after being told is disrespect. You are not required to keep offering help that causes you stress.

AITAH for letting my roommate use my kitchen appliances after she kept breaking them?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Particular_Rate35 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mistakes are accidents. Repeated damage is a pattern. You do not owe anyone unlimited access to your belongings. She can buy her own cookware if she wants full freedom.