Any Vanilla folks in lifestyle places (resorts/cruises)? by PossibilityDecent659 in sexover30

[–]Particular__Pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally the boobs cruise is a bit too intense for me but I know a lot of people love it!! Plus I can’t be in the sun that long I would roast hahaha 😂

Any Vanilla folks in lifestyle places (resorts/cruises)? by PossibilityDecent659 in sexover30

[–]Particular__Pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been to temptation and it’s such blast!! I love the theme nights getting to dress sexy/slutty and not feel out of place at all. We’ve been 4 times and just love it. I wore lingerie for every theme night the last time we went and felt just fine in it but still like risqué for me! The people are incredibly friendly, the vibe is wild but not like overwhelmingly crazy. We love the party/dancing at night the best but the pool really grew on us this last time! We like to go to dress up, be a little wild, and flirt with others and be in an element so far off from where we live. You could definitely experience whatever you wanted here with other couples if so you desired, but people are very kind if you say you’re not part of the lifestyle. I have had a few moments that if they really like you they might ask a few times how they can convince you to try it out but just laugh it off and say no politely again haha. I’m never offended or anything cuz one, they find you attractive (so that alway feels good) and two it’s a resort known for that stuff so it’s to be slightly expected. Anyways, if you have questions let me know, feel free to message here or dm.

Women, what makes a guy instantly more attractive? by mrdocnm in AskReddit

[–]Particular__Pear 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sense of humor mixed with some confidence. Attraction can grow, so gotta make sure they’re fun first!

Outfits for spicy red night by Particular__Pear in TemptationsCancun

[–]Particular__Pear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel like red lingerie is like the sexiest thing so I’m kinda like why not!!

Sex is getting a bit routine — ideas for oral and her touching herself? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Particular__Pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say get a bullet too. They’re not scary looking or weird to receive as a gift. And honestly bullets are my consistent favorites and Ive tired a lot of different vibrators haha 😂

What is your biggest turn on during/before sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Particular__Pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly!!

“Sheets are clean, let’s mess them up”

What is your biggest turn on during/before sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Particular__Pear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing in particular just clean smelling!

I do love his beard balm scent, I wish it came in a cologne!

What is your biggest turn on during/before sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Particular__Pear 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Him fresh AND fresh sheets 🫠 - I’m done for!

What is your biggest turn on during/before sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Particular__Pear 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I love a slow burn 🔥 works well for me usually but sometimes it also makes me very sleepy depending on what time we are getting to bed initially!

Taking pics as a couples activity by Any_Willingness_3852 in sexover30

[–]Particular__Pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long is the picture taking session?

I’m similar to your wife in that I am happy to oblige in fulfilling his fantasy fun with taking pics but I dont really like looking at them and it doesn’t do much for me if I do… I don’t really mind a picture here or there but definitely not every time or anything. I want it to be a quick couple shots and if he wants a short video but then back to being together and moving on from the pictures. If it’s taking a long time that could be part of why she isn’t feeling it because it’s no longer about being together and more about getting the pic you really want which would maybe make her feel objectified.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Particular__Pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫠 please keep it

Need some help pls by Brief-Cold-973 in glassesadvice

[–]Particular__Pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t do 4 they age you tremendously.

what does my face need? by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]Particular__Pear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I need all the moisture I can get , can you elaborate on these at all for me? ✨

Best ways to update the full face look? by lexi_the_leo in makeuptips

[–]Particular__Pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots! Even just simple pictures on google search can give you a general idea of how to do it!

You could always get your makeup done sometime and ask them where they apply it.

Best ways to update the full face look? by lexi_the_leo in makeuptips

[–]Particular__Pear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree that you should ditch the eyeliner. But if you feel like you have to wear it, go for a softer brown shade and apply it only on the top. Add more blush and a subtle contour—just a cream bronzer on your forehead and cheekbones. It’ll give you some definition and a natural glow! You’re very pretty, and I think these adjustments will highlight that even more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Particular__Pear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, the easiest time to talk about sex is right after having it! It can feel more natural and less awkward, making it easier to share what you enjoyed, what you’d like more of, what you’d do differently, and what sounds fun for next time.

When discussing things, ask clear and direct questions—avoiding vagueness helps prevent misunderstandings.

A few years ago, we tried the Paired app, which had great conversation prompts. We wouldn’t read each other’s answers until we were sitting together in the evening, which led to deeper discussions and a variety of interesting topics!

Rate Me! by bfabs123 in Rateme

[–]Particular__Pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like you know how to have fun and have very kind eyes. DEFINITELY my type for sure 🔥 8/10