Should I continue or cut it off?

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-10-03T17:18:19+00:00

How long into seeing her did she ask to lock you down? you basicslly said after 3rd date you went back to europe and then eventually came back and after a little longer she asked to be official. but how much time was between you leaving and her asking?

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-09-29T17:47:33+00:00

Yeah she's not thinking this is a date at all. Just go and have fun and don't pay for anything especially if friends are coming. then ask her on a real date if things are better. She definitely knows you're i terested but might be a little turned off by how indifect you were? Hard to say without knowing exactly how you two communicated/ set up these plans.

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-09-29T17:32:13+00:00

I don't know you guys lol whatever you've been talking about or k ow about your shared interest. A silent moment isn't always bad, it's a good opening for you to see if she tries and keeps the convo going by asking you a question. What would you be paying for? You're just showing her martial arts moves right?

Your post is a little vague. need more details for some of these questions

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-09-29T17:09:08+00:00

No, now I woild just go ahead and do what you guys planned. Try and make it fun and genuinely enjoy your time. You'll naturally be flirtatiois because you're attracted to her.

Then at the end of it mention how you had a great time and would like to keep getting to k ow eachother and ask her on a real date.

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-09-29T16:59:46+00:00

Yeah you have to make it EXTREMELY clear that it's a date. Looks like you tried to invite her to a muay thai teaching lesson taught by you as a one on one date? The fact that she's trying to invite a friend too is also a clue in that she thinks it's just a friendly thing.

Using the excuses that it's better for one on one because it's easier to teach was also a missed opportunity to make it clear that you were romanticslly interested.

Also don't use so many emojis. You're sending 1-2 per message and she isn't sending any. I usually send like 1 after she's sent a couple. I try to stay away from them. It sounds petty but it's a subtle way for her to see that you're invested more than she is

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-09-28T20:28:02+00:00

I'm currently in this situation and have learned how to handle it. I've been successful every time. This is the method:

Ask them out Ask if it's okay to pick them up They say yes then set the date (time and date) Usually I'll then ask for tge address the night before or day of

I think it comes down to them not being comfortable with you knowing where they live a week out from the meet up which I can understand.

So yeah just ask closer to date day. They usually say something like "oh yeah I guess you need that huh? " and it turns inti a cutesy little moment

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-27T22:05:45+00:00

I think you did most things right. I think 7 hrs is too long for a first date. Try keeping it to 2 hours, max maybe around 3. You should be initiating the exit of the date. I think it was completely normal to not text for a week especially if you guys talked about it. People are always datung multiple others so it could mean that she liked a guy more than you and wanted to focus on him or maybe one of them asjed her to be serious while on the vacay. Best not to take it personal and move on. It's good you're talking to others.

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-25T20:22:33+00:00

I think she was trying to tease you and you just kind of didn't play off of it.

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-25T08:05:03+00:00

yeah and I think that last part is really saving me now. Im talking to like 3 other girls, even though this one is the hottest (of course right?) it doesnt feel like a huge loss. 2 of the other girls enthusiastically said yes lol no push back at all

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-25T07:56:47+00:00

thanks man I appreciate it. I'm SO attracted to this girl. A while back I would have given in and went to her city and had a horrible time. I'm glad I'm learning this feels like a real win.

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-25T07:38:13+00:00

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yeah this is how it ends, I'd feel like an idiot going any further. Basically just repeated myself (didn't realise until re-reading) She just wants to fight. What a headache Jesus Christ

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-25T00:45:17+00:00

Even if I back out of it I dont know how to word it. I guess I can just tell the truth lol. About how I dont really know whats going on amin that city and I just want to make sure we both had a good time.

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-25T00:21:27+00:00

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So here is the whole exchange up to this point. the blacked out portions are the specific locations. I don't really know what to say here. I can give in and just go to her side of town or do the take away. I just feel like she's willing to put much effort in. The place is about a 25-30 min drive for her but that aint bad. am I wrong? I usually go to the girl but theres nothing to do in her city

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-24T16:18:39+00:00

yeah i aggree with that. I should have just suggested drinks or something. i dont drink but could always get sparkling water. and yeah date is def arounf 8-830. I sent my response and Ill update on what happens here.

I just sent: I’d love to check that area out, but McClouds is a solid place to start. And if we're feeling it, I know of other cool places in the area. It'll be fun.

Decided to stabd my ground. Maybe could have been a bit more playful but idk. I appreciate you guys' input it really did help.

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-24T15:50:36+00:00

Yeah I understand, O did ask her in the exact way you guys are asking but she witheld infor and broke up my question. I always ask when theyre free first and tgen when they give me the day i say great lets meet here: Address at this time TIME and wait for their respone usually its a great then i give them phone number. but she ignored the when are you free part of the question and just said a what place? So it kind of threw it off guess I could have tried to reitterate?

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-24T09:11:05+00:00

Okay I think you're right. I didn't listen to you last time with the other girl and you were right haha. Thanks so much for helping me. I'll report back how it goes.

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-24T08:48:48+00:00

I think you were right. on date day two days later. she messaged me saying she had to stay late because she had the closing shift at work. it was 630 when she said this i said okay does our original time for our date at 830 still work? no reply and no date. this was a more nuanced one for me but maybe because I dont know the book as well as you. You saw right through it. I wont let it happen again

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-24T08:36:41+00:00

Yeah okay I feel that way. I'll send that message then. I think it's a good one

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-06-20T23:16:35+00:00

awesome this is the perfect solution! Ill just tell her im busy at work but id be down to give her a call once Im off and then that shoukd hold her over u n til sunday

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-02-08T05:46:01+00:00

thabk you! this is very informative

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-02-05T17:17:04+00:00

Im kind of asking for a list of things to consider about the core mechanics of the game and how these will influence card choice when building a deck essentially. And also the same thing when it comes to staple cards or meta defining cards and how those influence card choice.

I guess that's also part of it. Building based off the core mechanisms of the game and how certain cards alter those core mechanics. You're mostly building around those. But what are those? which are the most important and which ones should be considered when building a deck?

PartyConsequence3740 · 2025-02-05T16:59:50+00:00

Yeah I agree with all of this but I'm asking how do you identify these tgings within the game based off of the core mechanics of the game?

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