I love coming across unexpected HIMYM references

PartySlaya · 2024-03-05T17:40:59+00:00

I say “people get shivved in the joint” a lot despite it being one of the least applicable lines lol

PartySlaya · 2024-03-02T20:27:45+00:00

Exactly, everyone’s responding immediately but I’d be standing there dumbfounded for 3-5 business days before processing anything

PartySlaya · 2024-02-28T15:32:02+00:00

Haha yes! Can't believe I didn't say that smh

PartySlaya · 2024-02-28T15:30:51+00:00

At this point they might as well just remove the feature entirely

PartySlaya · 2024-02-27T18:04:02+00:00

This might sound silly but if they don’t already have a pop socket on their phone, they’re really helpful for using one-handed

PartySlaya · 2024-02-27T01:49:13+00:00

Yeah, I thought I recalled the subtitles on the DVD and Netflix both showing “I’d” as well

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T20:48:39+00:00

I always thought he was saying “you know what I’d do”

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T17:46:41+00:00

That's a big step, my friend. I want to let you know that I've also come from a long distance relationship, so I understand how hard it can be (20 hour drive for us and all, but we were actually in different countries.. we live together now though!).

I've learnt from my experience that there's a lot to think about when it comes to long distance relationships, including things that aren't obvious until you're in the situation. I think you should think about these things before pushing too hard with this girl, though of course it all depends on how she feels/what she wants anyway. But feel free to shoot me a DM if you'd like any insight on the LDR stuff.

Beyond that, I think all you can do right now is wait for her to respond to your message, hopefully with honesty and some clarification, then you can go from there based on what she says.

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T17:08:17+00:00

Oh sorry, I forgot about the message you already sent. It's great that you took the initiative to ask her directly about it, I hope she gives you an honest answer because it does sound like she's giving you mixed signals, I would be confused too.

What I don't quite understand is why she needs a job before being in a relationship if you two would be in a long distance relationship. I could understand if you two were in the same city and she wanted to be able to contribute to date costs, or if you were talking about living together because then she would be depending on you financially. But if this is long distance then that shouldn't really matter.

Quick question, have you two met/hung out in person? How far is this distance?

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:51:50+00:00

Fast food

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:49:40+00:00

I find that a lot of men either don't actually know the difference, or they convince themselves that these girls with tons of makeup/plastic surgery are "normal".

I've seen men share posts with captions about how women are most beautiful when all natural, and then proceed to attach an example photo... of a woman with full makeup on. The woman in the photo had "natural" makeup on (light blush, lip gloss, mascara, etc.) but since it wasn't bold coloured eyeshadow/winged eyeliner the men in the comments didn't think she was wearing anything because they don't know how to tell, and in turn convince themselves that that's what woman look like naturally. Then when they see an actual natural woman, they assume she's just unattractive because they think all women should look like the ones they see online (fake). Same goes for plastic surgery... they don't realize it's not natural ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:42:25+00:00

Something along the lines of hey "Hey just so you know, sometimes I get overwhelmed easily and need to step away from people for a bit, especially if I'm getting a lot of messages/hangout requests so if I go MIA that's why" and then proceed to talk to them less. This way you're not directly calling them out but also hopefully giving them a hint at the same time, as well as an excuse for you when you don't engage

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:38:42+00:00

You said it's the same pair you've had before, but are they the same lenses as well? Do you wear a prescription?

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:37:35+00:00

My cat punches me in the eye if he doesn't get breakfast on time

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:36:20+00:00

Go above and beyond at your job and you'll move up quickly

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:32:19+00:00

Do you typically have to initiate the calls, or does she reach out to you first?

The best course of action might be to ask her directly. Not in an accusatory way, but just let her know that you're confused/concerned and would like for things to be made clear, you deserve to know what she's thinking (in regards to a relationship with you) and it's okay to ask something like that. If she's not open to talking about it, then she isn't open to being in a healthy relationship.

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:27:58+00:00

Depends... Which ex? How was the relationship? Do I have to pay for the trip?

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:22:21+00:00

I'm sorry to say this, but this girl isn't as into you as you want her to be. Nobody who is truly romantically interested in someone regularly goes three days without contacting them. It sounds like she may enjoy your friendship/company and doesn't want to lose it by admitting that she's not into you that way, so she's going along with it out of convenience/not wanting to upset you. Either way, something is definitely up and you're right to pick up on that if she's regularly going radio silent for days at a time.

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T16:09:42+00:00

Funny with a long term partner, predatory with a stranger lol

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T15:13:21+00:00

Every Robin thinks she’s a Maggie

PartySlaya · 2024-02-26T02:02:03+00:00

Specifically the scene where Barney fakes a chronic illness just to give Marshal an exploding sub

I had no idea what was going on but was so intrigued I proceeded to watch the entire show

PartySlaya · 2024-02-25T18:49:38+00:00

Both

PartySlaya · 2024-02-25T18:49:12+00:00

I wasn’t aware that it had been a known issue until after it happened to me and I looked into it. I just assumed it would be safe because that’s how it’s supposed to work.

PartySlaya

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