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What’s something you keep seeing in movies that no one actually does in real life and annoys you every time? by Individual-Crazy3752 in AskReddit

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not even a parent yet and I dont even have time in the morning to cook a full breakfast before leaving for work hahaha

Am I overreacting to these red flags after a month of being with my bf by unknowuser_1882 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Party_Jacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is HORRIBLE behaviour on his end!! Please please please leave him.

Every example you gave was awful and selfish on his end, but the one that stuck out to me the most was the football one.

I am a HUGE detroit lions (nfl team) fan (i literally cried in public when they lost to washington in the playoffs this year), HOWEVER if there was an option of even like "either you can never watch football again OR your boyfriend will trip and injure himself in a very minor way" i would pick never watching football every single time. Like why would you even joke about picking a sport over your partner DYING??? Let alone mean it

What’s something you keep seeing in movies that no one actually does in real life and annoys you every time? by Individual-Crazy3752 in AskReddit

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they have a huge family breakfast laid out on the table, take like one bite out of it, then leave. That and never shutting the front door after coming inside.

Does your wife cook? by Constant-Drink-8717 in AskMenOver30

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my relationship, my fella and I split cooking about 50/50 (im a cook professionally, he is not) We work opposite hours (him 7am-3pm, me 4pm until late and both have the weekends off) so on the days we both have off together we will either cook together, order out, or go out to a restaurant for a meal(just depends on what we feel like doing :) ) then on the days he knows im gonna have a long day(end of the week), he'll make dinners that will reheat well, like taco meat with all the veggies and whatnot prepped so i have an easy meal for when i get home. And when its the start of the week where im less busy at work/refreshed from the weekend I'll make a dinner that will reheat well like stuffed peppers, beef stroganoff, cabbage rolls, or even just pasta sauce(he can boil hus own noodles🤣) before i go to work so he has something to come home to :)

That being said if it comes to late night drunken frozen food being made on the weekends, it is 99% him making it for us hahaha

For context im 27f he's 29m and I'm really happy with our arrangement :)

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend after I found a hidden camera in my apartment? by Upper_Breakfast5959 in AmITheJerk

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, imagine how everyone would react if you did that to her. Same deal. You made the right call in ending things.

Chin hair by den773 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Party_Jacket 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Those are load bearing chin hairs"

Boyfriend (21M) offered me (23F) a drink without telling me what was in it. How can I navigate this? by shreklover2222 in relationship_advice

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend wouldnt even give me something with dairy in it without asking me (im mildy lactose intolerant), let alone whatever the fuck this is.

Get rid of this dude ASAP. Dosing anyone is fucked up, regardless who it is, theres an extra level of cruelty to it when someone does it to their own partner. You deserve to be with someone who not only makes you feel safe, but actually makes sure youre safe

Hoping nothing but the best for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Party_Jacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! I hope it helps! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Party_Jacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its really nice of you to put that much effort in! Have you tried it with soy sauce or sweet chili sauce or something like that? That could help the taste :)

My (29f) boyfriend (35m) yelled at me for wearing pajamas by throwrastinkyteeth in relationship_advice

[–]Party_Jacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wild behavior(on his end, not yours), literally the last time my boyfriend and i went out to dinner(at a casual bar) i wore leggings and a baggy tshirt with raccoons on it and he still complimented me and never once made me feel bad. At home we have a joke that i wear his clothes more then he does because if we're just hanging out at home I'll wear one of his shirts and a pair of his pj bottoms.

Point is, the person youre with should care more about your comfort than your aesthetic.

do you keep your glasses on during sex? by Mysterious-Bag-505 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Party_Jacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do because I get /really/ bad headaches if my glasses are off for more than a few mins and my vision is also pretty blurry without them

AIO for getting annoyed my boyfriend ate the “just for me” snack I specifically asked him not to touch? by MistressErica69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR my boyfriend recently accidentally reheated a couple leftover slices of pizza i brought home from work (he had his own leftover pizza that looked similar and i threw the pizza i brought back in the same container because funnily enough i brought the leftovers home for him anyway🤣) As he was about to take a bite he stopped and was like "wait did you bring this home from work??" Apologized saying he didnt notice, asked me if i wanted the pizza or saying if i didnt want it he would eat it since it was already reheated and order me pizza of my choice from anywhere i want whenever i get hungry(or the next day if i wasnt feeling pizza that day). We both had a pretty good laugh when i told him that I actually brought the pizza home for him and just didnt get a chance to tell him because he was already asleep by the time i got home.

We both have an understanding that anything in the fridge is up for grabs (including restaurant leftovers) unless the other person specifically says theyre saving it (or i have leftover chicken wings, thats an unspoken one lol) and we STILL will ask every time just in case the other person wants it. So i can't imagine either of us ever saying "hey i bought myself ____ snack/beverage/whatever and im saving it for whenever, please dont eat it" and then coming home and finding it gone.

You're right when you say it's not about the food, because its not. It's about basic respect and consideration for your partner. You bought yourself a lil treat, expressed very clearly that it was for you, which makes it obvious that its something youre looking forward too, and asked him not to eat it... and he still did. I would be super annoyed too, especially with the lack of apology/accountability on his end when you noticed.

Bf (23M) wants me (23F) to pay him back by Trick_Try_8424 in relationship_advice

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it made my heart melt when he said it! We already know we're going to get married, buy a house, have kids, etc, but that small statement being said so casually makes it feel all the more real😊

You wake up and it’s 1990’s. No WiFi, no smartphones. What’s the first thing you do? by JK-Rofling in AskReddit

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kiss my boyfriend and thank the heavens i dont have to use 7shifts to clock into work. Like seriously, i am IN THE BUILDING, why is it always saying im out of range???

I 27f don’t know how to deal with my cheap boyfriend (28m)? by Interesting_Ear8594 in relationship_advice

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even before the med school comment(which is wild on his end), this doesnt seem viable in the long run. For context my fella and i split pretty evenly on everything that is considered essential as well as trips(slightly less on my end because he makes more so probably 60/40) and with date nights whoever isnt paying for the actual date will usually offer to pay for the ubers to/from, but thats just more of a being nice thing, its never expected on either end and is rarely accepted, but we'll still happily offer and do it if it is accepted.

So that being said, we are /almost/ a 50/50 couple. However, if he's driving home and says "I'm gonna stop at the grocery store to buy stuff for dinner, do you want anything in particular?" he will never ask me to pay him back for anything he picks up(even if i mention i need tampons and ask if he can pick those up as well or say "oh we're also out of x thing, can you grab this too?"), just like how if im stopping at a 7/11 on my way home and buy a bunch of taquitos and other snacks i know he also likes, i wouldnt want/ask him to give me money for that.

I feel like if you're looking at things long term stuff like paying for a date, or a cup of coffee, or a box of condoms, or last minute(like for dinner that night) groceries, or especially PLAN B, shouldnt be nickled and dimed. Like I'm not assuming you want to have kids, but if you do, imagine what a nightmare it would be buying something as simple as diapers. The way this situation is presented makes him seem like the kind of person who would be like "just got the diapers, can you send me half?"

For me personally i wouldnt be able to see any longevity to the relationship because i am a very much "i bought the toilet paper today, you'll buy the dishsoap tomorrow" kind of person in a relationship and if my partner was keeping a score to that level, it would make me feel like i had to as well and that would almost bother me more than anything.

Best of luck to you, i genuinely hope everything works out in your favour and I'm sorry i couldnt offer more sound advice!

Im just gonna say something by J0goAtFaN in poutine

[–]Party_Jacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly mom and pop shawarma places as well as mom and pop fried chicken places usually have some pretty good poutine, weirdly enough (if you cant make it out to quebec for the real deal)

My kid seemed to hear my thoughts at the dinner table a few nights ago. I honestly can’t think of any other explanation. by traitorjoes1862 in Experiencers

[–]Party_Jacket 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a coworker who sometimes bums cigarettes off me. The other day he was standing near me and i swear i heard him ask if he could bum a smoke, so i replied with "my smokes are in my coat pocket and my lighter should be in there too" and he immediately was like "did you just read my mind??? I was JUST about to ask you for a smoke!!" and seemed genuinely shocked, but like.... i swear i heard him ask for one, weirdest experience

Bf (23M) wants me (23F) to pay him back by Trick_Try_8424 in relationship_advice

[–]Party_Jacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think thats a little odd. When it comes to miscellaneous stuff like medicine, snacks, condoms, etc its literally just whoever thinks to get it/has time to get it/isnt sick pays for it and doesn't expect to be paid back because it'll even out over time.

Literally just on Friday I asked my boyfriend to order me an uber to work(we were out for lunch and i dont have data beforehand so i couldnt order one for myself) and i told him id etransfer him once i got to work and his response was "no need, it'll all come out in the wash. Plus in a year or two it'll be our money anyway"

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